"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Linkin Park and more LIVE

Crazy Asian

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RIGHT NOW from whenever you read this post to 9:30 eastern time, there will be a LIVE concert on myspace of placebo, julien-k, him, taking back sunday, my chemical romance, and linkin park being streamed onto it. check it out.

http://www.myspace.com/nowwhat
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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it may take a couple of tries cause so many people are on it. but it works.
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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people need to get off myspace.

"Currently : Improving
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wow thats so clever! who would have thought about using myspace/facebook status things in a forum? really? who gave you such a great idea using MYSPACE ideas... on sosuave?! god! i wish i was so clever!

and who the hell wants to watch a live concert... through a computer? thats just retarded... it really is.
 

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Michele said:
and who the hell wants to watch a live concert... through a computer? thats just retarded... it really is.
Who wants to watch Linkin Park live? Is that seriously your question?

What difference does it make whether its on the PC or the TV. A lot of folks have really nice setups in either case, or actually have their PC outputting on their TV.

This is the "anything else" forum, Michele. What does that mean to you?
 
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