You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
She probably has already been pressured for sex from past boyfriends. That's how the teen years are for girls that date or have boyfriends. That's how girls learn this sort of "conditioning". The teen years are rough for both boys and girls.Originally posted by ( . )( . )
yeah and already socially conditioned to pretend that she has services that men want and that she will get nothing out of it, so If and when shes ready to be nailed it will be HER doing the favours.
IE: Use me for sex.
this sh!t is sad but still interesting to see a young girl pick up the conditioning of society so early and so naturally. Kind of becomes clear to see why so many men are inept.
When it comes to attraction and sex this girl like all girls has already established that she is the prize thats to be sort after, the sad part is all those men who believe that.
I feel very very grateful.
is that the same asOriginally posted by Wyldfire
I once stumbled upon "The D*ck List" which is essentially women posting about ex's who they consider to be d*cks, telling why they hate them. Some of you might be on the list...better check it. I just dug up the link again for ya...
http://www.the****list.com/cgi-bin/ultimatebb.cgi
yeah, that's the one.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
they never added any of my exes to the list.Originally posted by Wyldfire
yeah, that's the one.
If women are browsing the net looking for online lists to see if the guy they are dating is on a list of 'a$$holes', there is something mentally wrong
lol...I never tried to put my ex husband on there. I can't even remember how I found the list in the first place. I just thought it was kinda comical.Originally posted by penkitten
they never added any of my exes to the list.
and they were major ones, especially the one that gave me h!!
I don't think people find such lists by looking for them. The search words they attach to their meta tags could be damn near anything. I wasn't looking for it but saw a link somewhere and just clicked on it to see what it was.Originally posted by AverageFC
If women are browsing the net looking for online lists to see if the guy they are dating is on a list of 'a$$holes', there is something mentally wrong
same here but i tried to list a listOriginally posted by Wyldfire
lol...I never tried to put my ex husband on there. I can't even remember how I found the list in the first place. I just thought it was kinda comical.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Well, the only ex I have that I dislike is my ex husband. All my other exes are good guys and I think highly of all of them...they just ended up not being what I was looking for.Originally posted by penkitten
same here but i tried to list a list