Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
9 out of 10 girls would answer; "yes i can bolive it" even if she didn't think your gay (just so she could mess with your head.)no_longer_afc said:
you must have a boring life for posting crap like this.no_longer_afc said:How does this line sound to you,
She mentions that I dress well to which I say 'yeah people think I'm gay, can you believe that?!' She then says 'I wouldn't worry about it, all the girls fancy gay men as it is.'
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Very common in the UK.My Name is Nobody said:
no_longer_afc said:How does this line sound to you,
She mentions that I dress well to which I say 'yeah people think I'm gay, can you believe that?!' She then says 'I wouldn't worry about it, all the girls fancy gay men as it is.'