"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Limiting Beliefs

brosnake

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I saw an extremely pointless discussion about what is a 'HB10' that prompted me to write this post. There's no such thing as a HB10. She doesn't exist. Every girl has tiny flaws. Every single one. Guys who always have girls in their life never debate the merits of HB8 vs HB9 vs HB10 because they know it really doesn't matter in the long run. Once you date and see a bunch of girls naked you begin to realize they all have the same parts. A-Unit penned this concept well with the phrase 'pvssy is pvssy.' Stop rating girls right now, its extremely limiting. From now on your new rules are, 'hot' or 'not hot.' Period. Think of it like HB10 or HB 0.

Let me break this down for my computer science friends:

If ( girl == hot )
talkToHer();
else
findOtherGirls();

What besides being blessed with good genetics can you bring to the table? That's the question I'm subtly asking hot girls when I speak to them. Always remember there is an unlimited supply of attractive females in this world. Being hot is not good enough by itself for you to be in a relationship with a girl (I like relationships and not ONS, so this is written from that frame.) Not even close. Can she sit through 9 innings of baseball in one-hundred degree heat without complaining? That's way way more important to me than whether the b1tch has B-cups or C-cups.

Similarly, are you going after the chicks you want? Don't let what other guys want influence the kind of girls you think are attractive. Personally, give me Keira Knightly over Pam Anderson any day. I almost always prefer brunettes to blondes, and I'll take a smokin' asian chick over a smokin' Swedish chick every single time. That's just me.

That's the beauty of this world, two guys can look at two different girls and both say "that's the finest girl I've ever seen" and they are both right. Change your thoughts and your world will change with you gentlemen.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Skel

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I totally agree and I have said it before. Rating girls on a number system is stupid because there is no 10 and there is no 0. If that is true than there is no in between either.
 

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There are 10's and 0's. 10's give you instant heart attacks, and so do 0's. They do so however for different reasons.
 

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Skel said:
I totally agree and I have said it before. Rating girls on a number system is stupid because there is no 10 and there is no 0. If that is true than there is no in between either.
Reading that last sentence - what?
Sounds like my college teachers in social "sciences" with their agenda, wiping out all standards and measurements wherever they may be found. But man, you know there are differences. For example ... I suppose you have never heard of the Golden Cut, or Phi? I think you can find links about it in this forum.
 
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