"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Limit entry to certain forums?

Ricky

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Guys have mentioned creating a college forum. They have also mentioned creating a listing for age. Also, ee already have a high school forum.

How about limiting people to certain forums for posting questions.
Example the high school kids can only post to their forum and not to the general discussion forum, until they graduate.

If we have a college forum, limit them to that.

Then we get people of similar ages talking and less trolling and arguments?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I dont like the idea. It stops younger guys (like myself) who might have useful information for helping others in the other forums besides the high school one. Vice versa for the older DJs tryin to help out kids. The only thing this would do is restrict members of this underground community from communicating with each other.

What good would that do:( ?
 

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Or we can sort out users by their IQ and only allow those with a genius-level IQ into the Anything Else forum. That way we can filter out the morons. Instead of doing something stupid like that, we can just have a forum dedicated to politics so that the rest of the community isn't bothered with our discussions... if you could call them that.
 

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Am I the only other MENSA member on here?

Now that's one place you shouldn't try to pick up chicks at!
 

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Hehe. I was thinking about joining MENSA but I don't really care for IQ tests. They're not a true measure of your intellect. IQ is just logic. Disagree? Fine. My friend is trying to be a member of MENSA... his IQ is 165. My IQ is 165. He just wants to be able to put it in his resume.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I think IQ tests are a good indicator of logic and intellect. However they aren't necessarily a predictor of success.

Ambition and drive are way more important. There's alot of lazy intelligent people, look at college professors, or me!
 
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