MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Want to prove that it's not good form?Originally posted by RaWBLooD
it is improper form, pins and a power rack are used to "begin the lift at a higher point"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Want to prove that it's not good form?Originally posted by RaWBLooD
it is improper form, pins and a power rack are used to "begin the lift at a higher point"
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
When you compete at a power meet you need all the extra power you can muster, rolling the shoulders forward just a little will help the lift. It is not improper form, I have used it without problem.Originally posted by RaWBLooD
it is improper form, pins and a power rack are used to "begin the lift at a higher point"
That's what static holds are for.Originally posted by RaWBLooD
damn right about straps, you will surely impede your progress if you think forearms are gonna be able to hold the kind of weight you can handle on deadlifts and shrugs for more than 1 or 2 reps.
yes wait till you lift even heavier.Originally posted by Lifeforce
In my case that is not true, I've noticed growth in traps and erectors, very little lat improvement before I started being very serious about the lat training. Allthough it's such a heavy weight so you are correct it works the entire body in some way.
a form of forearm development, wich cant begin to compete with all the other muscles involved working together.Originally posted by Lifeforce
That's what static holds are for.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Maybe im not clear what you mean by "rolling the shoulders forward" i see that as arching your upper back forward, this would not be a good idea to do in a meet, i think you are speaking of the neutral position and the correct way of lifting in wich case theres no rolling to be done.Originally posted by Lifeforce
When you compete at a power meet you need all the extra power you can muster, rolling the shoulders forward just a little will help the lift. It is not improper form, I have used it without problem.
No, the static holds are done to strengthen the forearms so they can handle all of the reps. Start paying attention.Originally posted by RaWBLooD
a form of forearm development, wich cant begin to compete with all the other muscles involved working together.
he's trolling don't pay him any attention.Originally posted by MetalFortress
No, the static holds are done to strengthen the forearms so they can handle all of the reps. Start paying attention.
yes as in my quote; a form of forearm development.Originally posted by MetalFortress
No, the static holds are done to strengthen the forearms so they can handle all of the reps. Start paying attention.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
powercleans are great. If you have someone to see your form and help you perfect it, go for it. Very good mass and strength builder.Originally posted by CrizzleGA
Guys what do you think about power cleans? They are the same thing as deadlifts but with a couple more movements, I think? I am not sure but am curious about yall's opinions on that exercise vs deadlifts
Post of the year. Applies to all forums. Should be stickied atop all forums.Originally posted by Sweetcheeks
There are a few guys on this forum who seem to me to be very knowledgeable on the subject of strength training. They know much more than I do, and I am willing to defer to them.
I'd like to say that for those who have respectfully contributed to this site, thank you. Whether I agree with your opinions or not, I appreciate the positive spirit in which your advice has been offered.
Please don't stop posting because of a few abusive children.
I'm not an expert and I don't claim to be, but I HAVE been strength training for 15 years (since I was 14 years old) and do a lot of reading on the subject. I also have a Kinesiology degree from a well-respected University in Canada (look it up if you kids don't know the word K-I-N-E-S-I-O-L-O-G-Y).
I'm sure more than a few people have much more impressive legitimate qualifications.
I don't understand how some of the 18-20 year olds who:
-may have been lifting (likely IMPROPERLY) for maybe 1-2 years (if that)
-learned most of what they know from commercial bodybuilding magazine articles written by juice monkeys
-do 1/4 reps and brag about the weights they lift
-strut around with their chests puffed out (called FALSE LAT SYNDROME)
feel like they have the right to DISRESPECT people who have PAID THEIR DUES and are taking their valuable time to help others out.
Some of these guys are PUNKS.
I'm here to learn, and I take issue with those who are here to pound their chests and put others down. No one here claims to be GOD, and for all we know, all this info could be obsolete next year.
With attitudes like this, maybe it's no wonder why some guys have trouble with women.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I stand corrected. With the evidence posted above, I admit I am wrong and Sweetcheeks was right - lats are primary muscles for back extension.Originally posted by manuva:
The general content of Sweetcheeks post was a little off in places, but his advice was sound.
I can't believe that people actually consider this to be true. Stand up people and stand still straight. Now put your hand on the erector spinae of your lower back, make sure you don't flex it. Now put your hand on the latissmus dorsi without flexing it. If it is under work it should be hard. If it is soft then it isn't under alot of stress.Originally posted by manuva
I stand corrected. With the evidence posted above, I admit I am wrong and Sweetcheeks was right - lats are primary muscles for back extension.
My apologies, and thanks for the lesson!
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.