Liking a girl from a higher social status question

[Wasabi_Master]

Hi guys, I have a question.
I met a girl in college that i like but she has a very high social status (comes from a wealthy family). I on the other hand pretty much trying to make ends meet. How would i proceed or would this even work?

 

[namismybabe]

Go for it.

Would she turn you down? Depends on her and how she thinks, what her family thinks, etc. You won't know if you don't pursue.

 

[Wasabi_Master]

Ill try, but is it normal in this day and age for different social statuses to mix together, i've seen it in movies but not really in real life... I would think that if i was the father of the girl, the guy (me) has nothing to offer in terms of financial support or possibility to take over the family business.

 

[whatwg]

If she has a really high IL in you, she'll be with you, even if her parents are against it. I have definitely heard of high-flying career women quitting their jobs to become a stay-at-home mother while her husband continues to work as a plumber or firefighter.

 

[balance33]

Ill try, but is it normal in this day and age for different social statuses to mix together, i've seen it in movies but not really in real life... I would think that if i was the father of the girl, the guy (me) has nothing to offer in terms of financial support or possibility to take over the family business.

Yes it is normal and I can think of multiple examples in my own life. What matters is whether she is attracted to you. If she is, the rest will fall into place.

 

[plate's_empty]

Take her to sushi and offer her an extra dose of wasabi! yeah!!

Seriously though, it all depends on you. YOU. Are you effected by your social status? Does it make you feel inferior? Why? Is there more to life than money? Do you have anything more to offer than social status? Are you better than those higher social status db's that she could be dating? Can you give her a good d1cking?

The list goes on.

Think it and believe it. Do you know the name of Jessica Alba's husband? No. This dude (had a somewhat famous father) is pretty much a nobody but bagged one of the hottest girls in Hollywood. You think he was some AFC second guessing himself? Get rid of your limiting beliefs (social status). As long as you're comfortable with YOU, she will be too.