"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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justiceseeker

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If you have read any of my earlier posts, you'd know that I broke up with a psychotic woman not too long ago. This was a woman who, when I tried to leave her, tried to committ suicide. The kicker here is, she eventually DUMPED ME

Fast foreward--- I pretty much cut all contact with her. She tried calling me once a day for the first few weeks, then gave up after I never answered. So then I hear from a friend of mine that's also an aquaintence of hers that she was all butt hurt about our break up. Understand that when she dumped me I got very AFC. Wrote her a ****ing letter pouring my heart out about how much I was hurting without her. She never responded. Now she tells my friend she still loves me, but the reason she left was because she felt I didn't want to be with her and that I stayed so that she wouldn't hurt herself.

Now, to be honest fellas, I still have feelings for this girl, but I'm very much dreading getting into anything with her again. It was a very tumultuous relationship and caused me much stress. My gut is telling me to run for the hills, but my heart is saying it might be worth another shot.

I don't know
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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dopexile

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Uhm... it didn't work out... I'm not sure what you want us to tell you. Do you enjoy self inflicted pain? She's not going to all of a sudden change. It's going to be more of the same except now that you've been AFC she knows she has power over you so the real games can begin.
 

DjMe

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Get the hell out of there man. If you get back together its going to be the same sh*t, and its going to end again. Furthermore, as you said, this girl is pyschotic! She tried to commit suicide and failed?? naw naw naw, im jk with that bit. But seriously, being around people of this caliber (depressed, suicidal, drugs?) does nothing to help you in your life, rather as you said, it makes life stressful.

If you could be free of that, why would you go back? Go forward man! You already know you should.

Ademas, read some **** about oneitis. And insecurity. The world is full of other women my friend.

http://www.seductionbase.com/seduction/cat/seductionfaq/Beginner/298.html
 

AKA FLEX

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What did the barber say? NEXT!

Do you want a re-run of the last suicidal episode? I would be thankful that a woman like that dumped me; now is your chance to go find a sane girl, if there is one.
 
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