"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Like clockwork..

Scars

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Been NC with my BPD ex for about 4 months now. Get a call from a unknown number last night (have her old one blocked), and sure enough it's her.

Scars: Hello
Ex: Hey..
Scars: Who is this?
Ex: Um, it's actually <name>..
Scars: <name> as in, my ex <name>?
Ex: Yeah..
Scars: I'm actually driving right now, can I call you back later?
Ex: Okay.

Never called her back of course.

Then this morning I woke up to a text saying how she was so "surprised" that I answered my phone, said it's been "so long" and wanted to "see how I was doing".

Never replied to that one either.

Last I knew she was dating some other dude, so I figure they either broke up or things are going sour.

A PERFECT example of how borderlines never truly let go of their victims.

Good thing Scars is an even BIGGER assh0le now, and she only has herself to blame for that. :)

-Scars
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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im glad your ego is being stroked, good for you.

so you posted this because its important to you right.

were you a wimp before and now your balls are growing? either way, she wants to keep contact for whatever reason.

if you dont want to DONT DO IT
 

Scars

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TheRedLion: You got it. My ego is being stroked, I'm slightly narcissistic, but I don't care. For someone who likes to be in control, it's always nice to be reminded that you have the upper hand.

I was never a wimp with her. That's one of the reasons why she won't ever get over me. Because I'm the only person who has ever called her out on her sh!t (her words, not mine.)

I have no intention of going back, in fact, it looks like she changed her number or got a new one just to contact me with, that is now blocked as well. I don't have a facebook, and I pretty much dropped all of our mutual friends. It's pretty much impossible for her to get a hold of me. Thus this post. It just proves the lengths borderlines will go, because they're seriously fvcking crazy in the head.

-Scars
 

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lol

the one thing i learned

is women are all bipolar

they are all crazy

they feel entitled to do stupid sh8t and think we should put up with

and they get worse on their periods


hahahahahaha

but we love that panocha hahahah
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Scars

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LE6END said:
Scars, what happened between you and her?
What do you mean? The break up?

Things were always bad, but we got into a big blow out while I was driving so I pulled over and kicked her out of my car and left her stranded. (Her car was parked at my house.) The same night her dad had to drive her down to my house to pick up her car and tried to fight me and I punked his ass right in front of his own daughter. Never talked to either one of them sense.

I could go on and on about some of the fvcked up sh!t that happened between me and this girl, but that's not what this thread is about.

-Scars
 

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Yup, it is like clockwork, scars. It always amazes me how BPDs so closely stick to the script.

Mine contacts me every two to three weeks. Last time I completely ignored her and she said she wouldn't contact me again. We'll see. I'm certain she's wondering what I'm doing every night.
 
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