"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

Like and Unlike

Status
Not open for further replies.
Joined
Dec 12, 2004
Messages
17
Reaction score
0
Age
40
Location
South Africa
I got this girl to like me but then she said i was too Slow to make a move so one night she kissed this other guy at my school on the night i was gonna make a move on her, she said she didnt plan for that to happen and now this other guy has made her fall for him so she likes "both" of us , she told me, I told her to go for him and we can be friends, now the other guy and her are also not progessing, what can i do to win her over again?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Joined
Nov 16, 2004
Messages
366
Reaction score
0
Originally posted by Don Juan De Joffe
I got this girl to like me but then she said i was too Slow to make a move so one night she kissed this other guy at my school on the night i was gonna make a move on her, she said she didnt plan for that to happen and now this other guy has made her fall for him so she likes "both" of us , she told me, I told her to go for him and we can be friends, now the other guy and her are also not progessing, what can i do to win her over again?
NEXT HER
she is obviously a game playing biatch, and unless u are in it for the game :rolleyes: haha wtf, then u really shudnt waste your time.
 

hsm978

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 20, 2004
Messages
24
Reaction score
0
This is gonna be my last post tonight then I'm gonna start studying for my finals.

First you have to determine how high her interest it. If it is very high then do this:

Tell her that you're tired of her sh1t. That if she wants to be with you she have to ditch the other guy. and that if she doesn't pick you, you will walk away. Period!

Then wait a few days to let her think and watch her run into your arms. Or his arms and telling you to piss off. ;-)

She might try to say that it isn't fair or that she really confused or just wants to be good friends; but you have to show her that it's either you or nothing. Good Luck.
 

Vincent

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 18, 2002
Messages
3,595
Reaction score
5
Age
40
You lost your chance, next her.

There are other fish in the sea. Read the bible.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

Dillinger

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 6, 2004
Messages
189
Reaction score
0
Location
Indiana
If you really want a chick don't give up so soon. I'm not for the whole nexting so soon, unless there is a good reason.

1. She may have kissed that other guy as a wakeup call. telling your slow a$$ to man up.

2. I think she wants you, now it's your turn to close the deal.

If I were you I would ask her out. If she is still playing games then next her.

I am trying to get across to the newbies, to not give up so soon. But also don't stalk a girl, find a happy medium.

Do this and tell us how it goes.
 
Status
Not open for further replies.
Top