Like a girl from my class

[Vlappo]

Sin, reading your posts re numbingly frustrating.

Listen up man, you have to realize that you're the ****. No one else can get in your way, you get what you want, when you want, no doubt about it. I know you don't think that way, but you have to convince yourself that. Believe it until you genuinely feel it. When I first started learning this stuff and read the DJ Bible, I faked my confidence for a while. People believed I was really confident, I walked around like I was really confident (shoulders back, chest up, head up, holding eye contact, etc.).

As for the girl, when you noticed that she kept looking at you when she was w/ the guy, you should've messed with her. Stuck your tongue out and see how she reacted, just be playful. If she reacted positively back to that, I would've walked right up to them, and said to the girl "Hey Name, I have to show you something, come w/ me" or something similar...it doesn't matter what you say because she would have followed you. That's how a man leads a girl, not the other way around. Start taking action when you want to...don't wait for her.

Another thing, GET OUT OF YOUR HEAD. Quit over analyzing everything that's going on and LIVE IN THE MOMENT. So on NYE, be playful w/ her, have a good time, but also flirt w/ other girls. Don't do it for her, do it for yourself. Its fun and exciting. Then, when YOU want, before the ball drops, take her and be playful again...and kiss her! Just do it. If she isn't receptive, her loss, but she won't. She will kiss you because you're the prize. She wants you. Good Luck.

 

[Sin Verdad]

Ok guys, I have not called or texted this girl since before the party. Tonight is new years and it's my time to shine and take this to the next level. I am gonna leave the bar at 11:50pm and go to my car. I am going to get a rose and come back in. I will tell her to close her eyes and then open them and give her the rose and then kiss her on midnight. My friend told me to do this move haha.

But I dont know what to do after that. Do I tell her I like her after or just talk about school? Should I be direct and tell her I want to date her or just hint at it and be mysterious?

haha well tonight should be interesting at least.

 

[AAAgent]

you're not even dating her so why are you doing these things. Hopefully it works out for you but i doubt it will. Kiss her first then give her the rose later when you're dating her...that would work better.

You never tell a girl you want to date her, you just ask her out to a date function. If she accepts then boom you're dating her but don't mistake that for her being your girlfriend.

Remember the whole point of dating is for two people to get to know each other to the point where they either decide they're not interested or when they decide that they trust the person and are interested enough to pursue it further.

 

[Sin Verdad]

So I called my mutual friend at 9:00pm and kind of slid it in asking if my girl would be there. She said yes. I dressed real nice and my buddy drove to bar with me. We arrived to the bar at 11:30. I put the rose under my jacket and walked into the bar. I saw mutual friend and she hugged me. I was too focused on finding my girl. I looked around for a bit. I didn't see her. I waited. I asked mutual friend and she said that my girl wasn't coming tonight! LOL. I was mad. So midnight came and went, no kiss, no girl. I talked to other girls after but I wasn't focused. I guess it wasn't meant to be tonight but soon enough I will plant one on her!

 

[r0cky]

Ok guys, I have not called or texted this girl since before the party. Tonight is new years and it's my time to shine and take this to the next level. I am gonna leave the bar at 11:50pm and go to my car. I am going to get a rose and come back in. I will tell her to close her eyes and then open them and give her the rose and then kiss her on midnight. My friend told me to do this move haha.

But I dont know what to do after that. Do I tell her I like her after or just talk about school? Should I be direct and tell her I want to date her or just hint at it and be mysterious?

haha well tonight should be interesting at least.

Noo dude! Why are you even THINKING about telliing her you like her??
Even thinking this way violates the very basic rules of being a DJ!!
Please at least give the DJ Bible a quick glance. It happens to have some useful info on attracting girls.

 

[Sin Verdad]

Great news! This girl will be in my science class next semester! Good luck for me because I didn't even plan it.

Anyways I texted this girl the other day and we have plans to hang out this saturday! Any tips? I was thinking about dinner and a movie. Can't decide which movie though. Our other friend is coming along as well but I'll just concentrate my attention on my girl.