"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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light weight training for a beginner who wants to get big!?

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Hi all!
So I finally joined the gym and didn't really know where to start out. So the guy you runs the place put me on a light workout plan to begin with.

I forgot most of the names of the exercises right now, but there are 8 of them.

Leg Press- 20reps of 80lbs
Crunches- 20
benchpress- 15reps 60lbs

There are 5 other exercizes too but I forget there names. Anyway they involve barbells and some other things.

Anyway the point I'm trying to make is, well it's too easy! WHY WOULD HE WANT ME TO START OFF SO SLOW!? I heard that to get big, you gotta lift big!? Why would he start me on such a light workout plan? I reckon I could leg press 120lbs. I've never done any gym work before but I want to get BIG! What should I do, stick with this easy plan or what? Thanks guys
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Jimbo2k

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You should have asked the trainer that, he woulda told you right there.

Your body has to get accustomed to using all these new muscles it hasnt really used before. Belive me, I started doing more than I should have, and I was sore for 4 days. I had immense trouble even dressing myself I was so sore.

I wasn't even doing that much compared to what I could have, but it still ended up that way. You gota start off slow, and get accustomed to it.

Im not sure how long after you start should you start increasing the weights, im sure one of the more knowlegable ones here could offer insight.
 

Templeton

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Jimbo is pretty much on the money there. I might add that you need to learn the actual technique, coordination and balance as well, so lighter weights should be employed during this time. I would actually have you use lighter weights (as your are already doing) but LESS reps than your trainer has prescribed. Note that light even at this time is relative, performing DB presses (for example) with 5lb DBs won't give you a true impression of the movement.

Learn the moves, get your body used to training then gradually increase the weights and intensity as you feel able - listen to your body.
 

Soshyopathe

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You think you have your technique down good enough to be benching 4-6 reps at 80% of your 1rm?

You have to get used to the motions, to the feeling, to the mental aspect before you even think about dropping down to 4-6 reps. 10 is a good number to start out on, and a newbie will put on a lot of muscle on a 10-rep routine.

After a few months you can drop your reps and up your weight, and you will explode.
 
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