Duracell_Bunny
Senior Don Juan
Just a quick one.
I currently have this lump buster on the go for about a month. I feel like I've lowered my standards to this, even though she's a great laugh and good company etc. I just don't find her physically attractive (shes not a whale or anything like that, just a bit extra flesh around the edges).
The only reason I'm keeping this going is cos it's the only plate I have right now and am not that kinda guy to have a constant flow of new dates/prospects.
Anyway, I'm a little worried that she sees me as b/f material with her recent request. This is not what I want with her, I was just after mere casual FBs and someone to chill with every now and again.
I'm feeling a little guilty that I could be using her. Do you think I should just drop it or keep it going and avoid becoming too attached? If I let this go I'l have nothing and will be back to square one. At least with her I can keep myself conditioned so to speak and play about until the next one comes along.
1st Date:
Casual Drinks in the evening, went very well.
2nd Date:
Basic lunch (she works in my area but lives miles away), followed unintentionally by a night out to a club and then a heavy makeout in my car.
3rd Date:
Invited her over to watch a DVD. She agrees, we had sex (she was a little challenging at first saying things like "is this all you invited me over for?" but I got her horny in the end and she went crazy).
4th Date:
She called me up, a couple of days later asking if I want to take a walk this Sunday around a lake in the peak district, but isn't available in the evening. I haven't rejected, but said I will let her know. Honestly I don't know what I'm doing yet.
That sort of thing I would consider to do with a g.f, at the same time I feel I could loose the frame if shes now asking to do what she wants (which is a first).
How can I keep this going without leeding her on? Just be upfront if she ever gives the "what are we?" talk?
I currently have this lump buster on the go for about a month. I feel like I've lowered my standards to this, even though she's a great laugh and good company etc. I just don't find her physically attractive (shes not a whale or anything like that, just a bit extra flesh around the edges).
The only reason I'm keeping this going is cos it's the only plate I have right now and am not that kinda guy to have a constant flow of new dates/prospects.
Anyway, I'm a little worried that she sees me as b/f material with her recent request. This is not what I want with her, I was just after mere casual FBs and someone to chill with every now and again.
I'm feeling a little guilty that I could be using her. Do you think I should just drop it or keep it going and avoid becoming too attached? If I let this go I'l have nothing and will be back to square one. At least with her I can keep myself conditioned so to speak and play about until the next one comes along.
1st Date:
Casual Drinks in the evening, went very well.
2nd Date:
Basic lunch (she works in my area but lives miles away), followed unintentionally by a night out to a club and then a heavy makeout in my car.
3rd Date:
Invited her over to watch a DVD. She agrees, we had sex (she was a little challenging at first saying things like "is this all you invited me over for?" but I got her horny in the end and she went crazy).
4th Date:
She called me up, a couple of days later asking if I want to take a walk this Sunday around a lake in the peak district, but isn't available in the evening. I haven't rejected, but said I will let her know. Honestly I don't know what I'm doing yet.
That sort of thing I would consider to do with a g.f, at the same time I feel I could loose the frame if shes now asking to do what she wants (which is a first).
How can I keep this going without leeding her on? Just be upfront if she ever gives the "what are we?" talk?