"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Lifting and Sleeping

yungahdubz

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Before I had started lifting, i could sleep alright. After that i had started doing the stronglifts 5x5.

For about about the 3 months i was lifting i needed to use melatonin on a Sunday, Monday and a few times on a Tuesday for me to sleep okay.

In the past 2 weeks when I havent lifted I've noticed i havent had to use melatonin once, no waking up in the middle of the night and not much tiredness in the morning.

there must be some sort of correlation, has anyone else exeprienced something similar to this?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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mikeyb

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Do you lift in the morning or at night? When is your last meal and what does it consist of? Do you use any supplements?
 

yungahdubz

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I lift at night, 7 and go to bed at 10.

I'd finish my last meal at about 6ish and it almost always consists of about 7 chapatis, a bowl of rice with daal and some sort of curry to eat the chapaits with.

Its not the type of curry you'd find in ur local indian, its a lot healthier, same with the chapati's. The 'curry' is just made up of vegetables.

Some days its beans, other days its aubergine(sp?) mixed with peas and potatoes. Lots of variations.

Also, to drink i have a youghurt drink mixed with water, salt and cumin in it.
 

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I'm going to bet that if you lift in the morning or before 5PM, you'll stop having these problems.

Part of the reason we work out is to raise our metabolic rate and heart rate. Your heart rate is still going to be elevated for many hours after working out, so the longer the time between working out and sleeping, the better.

I work out usually at 3-4PM and never have these problems, but if I work out just before bed, I can get to sleep fine but I wake up and kick around during the night.
 

yungahdubz

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Hmmm, well waking up at 5 am will be well hard for me! But ill workout at about 4:00 pm when i get home for a few weeks and see how i sleep.

Cheers for the advice
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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