"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Lift Pick Up: Ethical Question...

slickaz

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Got to work.
I work on the top floor, 38th.
HB8.5 gets into lift with me works on 30th.

I smile at her, tell her to press first.

She presses 30, i press 38.
Smiled back at me.

She:So top floor huh?
Me: Yeh, longer the fall right?
She: hahahah, what do you do there?
Me: im a xxxxxxx.
She: Oh awesome! i work for xxxx as an xxxxx
Me: Coool. Ive never seen you here before, new?
She: No i just usually start early. looking forward to end of friday tho!
Me: Yeh? Got big plans?
She: No, but i was thinking i might get some friends together and go grab a drink..
blah blah blah i get her number before she steps off the lift.

Now im stuck with a dilemma. I have a girl. I should'nt be doing this, right?
Im flying out tonight for work so there is nothing i can do with this chic anyway. So hmmmm..

Anyway just to prove to all those guys out there that say its SO hard to pick up hott chics.. BS, it is possible to pick up hott chics and very quickly too.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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slickaz

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almost 4 months into a possible LTR
 

TheBucketOfTruth

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Getting phone numbers with no intention of calling is wrong in some ways, but are you going to call?

I say you keep in contact with her; keep her in the bullpen. Go out with her but keep it platonic since you're in a relationship. Flirting isn't cheating, though. You can even say things like "If I wasn't already in a relationship, I might have to watch myself around you" when things have progressed. Who knows what will happen with your relationship, but it's nice to have backups at the ready if things don't work out.
 
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slickaz said:
Now im stuck with a dilemma. I have a girl. I should'nt be doing this, right?
I have a girl too. She gives me permission to socialize with other girls, just as long as none of the girls are married. Get permission from your own gf and see how she is with that. I think it's called MLTRs or something like that. Look it up.

You ask a question like this on this board then I'm going to answer it and you'll be getting advice from me.

sickaz said:
Im flying out tonight for work so there is nothing i can do with this chic anyway. So hmmmm..
What, you are passing up an opportunity?

slickaz said:
Anyway just to prove to all those guys out there that say its SO hard to pick up hott chics.. BS, it is possible to pick up hott chics and very quickly too.
You honestly call that a pick-up? Are you for real? I can even do that.

Getting a number from someone at work is easy to do. I'm a Real-Estate agent and if I go to a convention or even deal with women at my own office, you are bound to make connections in your daily course naturally. In your environment, this is something that is naturally arising from that set-up.

This is not a genuine pick-up, you just connected with someone that worked in the same building. Just got a number.

All you got is a name, a face, and a phone number. ElStud can do this, anyone really can.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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slickaz said:
Got to work.
I work on the top floor, 38th.
HB8.5 gets into lift with me works on 30th.

I smile at her, tell her to press first.

She presses 30, i press 38.
Smiled back at me.

She:So top floor huh?
Me: Yeh, longer the fall right?
She: hahahah, what do you do there?
Me: im a xxxxxxx.
She: Oh awesome! i work for xxxx as an xxxxx
Me: Coool. Ive never seen you here before, new?
She: No i just usually start early. looking forward to end of friday tho!
Me: Yeh? Got big plans?
She: No, but i was thinking i might get some friends together and go grab a drink..
blah blah blah i get her number before she steps off the lift.

Now im stuck with a dilemma. I have a girl. I should'nt be doing this, right?
Im flying out tonight for work so there is nothing i can do with this chic anyway. So hmmmm..

Anyway just to prove to all those guys out there that say its SO hard to pick up hott chics.. BS, it is possible to pick up hott chics and very quickly too.

you can do whatever you want, there's no law written that says you cant always be gaming new chicks and hooking up with them

PLEASE, playa, get out of your AFC mindset

edit: Luke, shut your virgin trap up, and dont be giving people advice here you creeper
 

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Luke Skywalker said:
You ask a question like this on this board then I'm going to answer it and you'll be getting advice from me.
Your advice isnt worth the electrons. Here is an incomplete list for newbies:

Luke Skywalker
- is a virgin
- lives at home with mommy who is a conduit of God and the domineering force in his life
- is ~40yo
- apparently works in 'real estate'
- posts frequently about his adventures with a) a fleshlight, b) choking the monkey, c) viewing all sorts of depraved sick porn and doing a) and b)
- in conclusion is a troll, and a very sick individual


By a show of hands, Who want to listen to anything Luke Skywalker says? Besides the fact that its funny and outrageous in a very sick way.

Luke, you bring shame to this message board.
 

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I was about a slate skywalker for talking sh!t, but looks like a couple of you guys beat me to it. I swear thats intentional troll type behaviour!

anyways, nice on slickaz, I like your style!
 

Alle_Gory

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djinhell said:
I swear thats intentional troll type behaviour!
You can do your part by using the report button in the corner. Used for spam, trolling... etc.

We CAN get rid of this sick, twisted individual!
Help SoSuave get rid of the troll, Luke Skywalker.
 

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His name alone makes me laugh so fricken hard lol
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Slick I'm confused bruh

you keep making these post about you talking to other girls or beefing with your girl. You gaming other girls can be done for pratice I guess (but it's a sign of disrespect, if you in a serious relationship why bother?) but you gotta ask yourself would she be cool with it?

personally I think brother, you ain't really feeling your girl all that well, you got other chicks coming in and you questiong what to do, if you was comitted to your girl for real, you wouldn't even care about these other chicks. and trust I'm speaking from experince cause I just went through the same thing mayn

peace
 

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Since when does Luke have a gf? Could someone breef me on the troll trama please?
 

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SamePendo said:
Since when does Luke have a gf? Could someone breef me on the troll trama please?
He's dating his mother or with his mother. I forget which.
 
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