Lifestyle vs. having a lot of money

[skinnyguy]

I don't agree with a lot of what RSD spews out, but I think they are on point when it comes to lifestyle.

Having the right lifestyle and attitude will attract women. Sometimes, it can attract the wrong type of women, but you guys are smart enough to filter out those hoes.

Having money doesn't mean you have a good lifestyle. If you're hoarding money in your bank account and dress like ****, don't go out, and stick to yourself, you don't have a good lifestyle. You can have a good lifestyle even if you are not rich. Of course, being rich helps a lot in that department.

This isn't necessarily just to attract women but to attract better vibes into your life. Women can sense your VIBE from miles and miles away. A guy who's in the social vibe and cares about style will be noticed, even if he's not a model.

 

[kanaki]

it would be nice if women shared your point of view

 

[mrgoodstuff]

it would be nice if women shared your point of view

Even women have multiple points of view.

 

[Poonani Maker]

I could buy a very nice home and mercedes SUV etc right now, and I'm sure it would attract em like flies. I'm sure things may start happening to me on another level, cause as it stands now, any sniffing a woman does in my direction, any spying on her part, will make her pass on me. I'm livin low, I'm livin frugal (yet buy nothing but the best (functional usually) for myself well-researched products from sunglasses to clothes to chairs to computer parts, gun parts, bikes, lawn equipment, food, I buy nothing but the BEST for me - I can spend HOURS researching sh!t because I'm not married or with children i.e. not many responsibilities). I'm very good at purchasing, but when it comes to a GIANT purchase of say a house or a car, I become immobilized because THERE's ALWAYS something BETTER. Big purchases are harder to get out of (making a mistake). It's easier to discard or backtrack (sell on ebay) small well-researched purchases. I'm not a multi-millionaire so changing my "lifestyle" to appear much better to women who look on in the big purchases department is ill-advised, in My mind. If $500K purchase here $700K purchase there were no issue then I'd certainly have ZERO problems attracting 60% of females looking on at my life out n' about to n' fro.

 

[skinnyguy]

I could buy a very nice home and mercedes SUV etc right now, and I'm sure it would attract em like flies. I'm sure things may start happening to me on another level, cause as it stands now, any sniffing a woman does in my direction, any spying on her part, will make her pass on me. I'm livin low, I'm livin frugal (yet buy nothing but the best (functional usually) for myself well-researched products from sunglasses to clothes to chairs to computer parts, gun parts, bikes, lawn equipment, food, I buy nothing but the BEST for me - I can spend HOURS researching sh!t because I'm not married or with children i.e. not many responsibilities). I'm very good at purchasing, but when it comes to a GIANT purchase of say a house or a car, I become immobilized because THERE's ALWAYS something BETTER. Big purchases are harder to get out of (making a mistake). It's easier to discard or backtrack (sell on ebay) small well-researched purchases. I'm not a multi-millionaire so changing my "lifestyle" to appear much better to women who look on in the big purchases department is ill-advised, in My mind. If $500K purchase here $700K purchase there were no issue then I'd certainly have ZERO problems attracting 60% of females looking on at my life out n' about to n' fro.

yes, but in the original post i never said that buying expensive things means you have a nice lifestyle.

i think a guy who has a lot of friends and has interesting hobbies will have a nice lifestyle. that doesn't involve spending a ton of money.

 

[ubercat]

I think you need some $ friends like to go out and do things.