"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Lifes ups and downs

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I was in a rut with women and all of a sudden I got better at getting girls for because I learned a new concept to use on women. So from there I lost a girl
that I thought really liked me. All of her friends turned against me and reallly werent being nice. But I fought through that and gamed 2 gurls over the break I went on dates with them.And everything. I was kissin on them both and ****. And I went out with the girl A lastnight. ANd when I came back too school... I waved at girl B and she just looked at me. So we got a new schedule for this semester and I looked around and found her and I sat infront of her in class. (so when we got group work i could just turn around to talk to her) She just kep leavin me withought talkin to me.ANd when I came home i found out she was sayin hi to my friend and bein all over his nut sack. So then when I got home i found out that she deleted me off of her myspace. And then she makes a comment about her mom is talkin about me, im becomin a household name, she doesnt think thats a good thing. I just dont know what I did wrong. She seemed like she made up her mind that she was goin to treat me like that when she first didnt wave back at me. Im a reck man, im pissed off.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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