“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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don't kno wat else to do anymore at this point, but quit. i get #'s but they don't amount to anything. i've only gotten one make out and that's it. haven't even gotten a chick into the room etc., i'm really upset at this point. what im i doin wrong?

i suspect it's the textn. i get a # then after that i can't take it anywhere.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Dude, don't worry flakes are abundant.
At least you are not poor.
 
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SamTheHobit said:
Dude, don't worry flakes are abundant.
At least you are not poor.
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sure everyone gets flaked on. but despite the flakes, everyone also gets some action. not to sound too down or depressed, 'cause im more than ready to be optimistic. i just don't kno wats up though. wat im i doin wrong?

the make out that i've had, the girl was all over me teling me how good lookn i am etc., then since that night i text her to set up plans and it doesn't go anywhere. for someone who was supposedly soooo into me to flake like that really is upsetting

i don't kno wat to do anymore. serious
 
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talented_beginner said:
:cry: :cry: :cry:

don't kno wat else to do anymore at this point, but quit. i get #'s but they don't amount to anything. i've only gotten one make out and that's it. haven't even gotten a chick into the room etc., i'm really upset at this point. what im i doin wrong?

i suspect it's the textn. i get a # then after that i can't take it anywhere.

help?
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DUDE, I"M IN THE EXACT SAME SITUATION AND ABOUT TO QUIT TOOOOOO. Except, I can get girls in my room lol. Like they'll be all over me when I meet them, but after I get their number it goes south from there.
 
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DUDE, I"M IN THE EXACT SAME SITUATION AND ABOUT TO QUIT TOOOOOO. Except, I can get girls in my room lol. Like they'll be all over me when I meet them, but after I get their number it goes south from there.
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this.

i think what makes it worse, my bro's kinda tease me sayn "always w/ the #'s #'s we never see anythn". i kno it's jokn but sometimes people use jokes to tell u what they can't really say in a serious way. if i was gettn encouraged by my bro, i.e. "don't give up" "keep tryn" etc., then maybe but it sucks to see ur bro's gettn laid week in week out n all u can say is "i got so and so's #" :down:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I mean what are we suppose to do after hooking up with a girl. I see people in my fraternity bringing back the girls they hooked up with
 
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First of all, what the hell is "wat" and "kno" and "i"?

Second of all, sorry about being harsh on that.

And thirdly, you are not the only one. I can't seem to even get a "female friend" out for coffee even after knowing her for a year and working with her. Seems as if you are putting too much weight on just trying to find some snatch. This may look as if you are coming on too strong or what not.

Those other guys are probably pulling from their social circle, so try to build one for your self.

Yeah, it sucks seeing everyone around you getting play, talking about their night and so on driving you deeper and deeper into wanting that yourself. It sucks. I know because I see it every damn day. And on top of that, I am an introvert and for the most part, people just annoy the crap out of me and most don't seem worth my time.

I understand now why they say to keep yourself busy. To keep your mind at bay, to keep from getting desperate and coming on too strong.

So, you are not alone.

Do girls talk to you at all? Because for the most part, I seem invisible to them.
 
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It simply means your game isn't tight enough. Start making field reports, so, you can get feed backs on what you did wrong. Most of the time, the reason they flake is because of the approach, or there is not enough attraction.

King Allister
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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no one knows anything about you. how old are you, what city are you in, what else do you do in your life besides getting a girl's number?
 
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D.J. King Allister said:
It simply means your game isn't tight enough. Start making field reports, so, you can get feed backs on what you did wrong. Most of the time, the reason they flake is because of the approach, or there is not enough attraction.

King Allister
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sounds good. not gonna quit after all. givin this another shot! :box:
 
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