Life's Cruel Little Joke

[tmpgstx]

Good post.

 

[Maximus Rex]

Inspirational bump.

 

[JoeMarron]

This is all true but technology will probably change women's fortunes for the better. I'm sure there's more methods to prevent aging now than there was when this post was made 7 years ago.

 

[TheODB]

This is all true but technology will probably change women's fortunes for the better. I'm sure there's more methods to prevent aging now than there was when this post was made 7 years ago.

It's possible, but a substantial number of women are still aging like absolute crap. You can see it in everyday life.

 

[Tiguere]

Women are having lipo done . So their shelf life is being extended.

 

[skinnyguy]

I will be hitting my peak when I'm 38. I look very young (10 years younger than my age), so when I'm in my late 30's I'll have money and will be pulling 22 year olds

 

[Serenity]

What if you're 22, done with school, make more money than your father and your friends, own an apartment and have your own car? This is me!

While being AFC I built my life because I didn't do well socially. I'm at the point where many men are when they're 30, still my possessions doesn't get the chicks. Very many chicks at my age are insecure at the core, and by the time they figure it out their looks have faded. So they are great for fvcking, but not relationships. There are exceptions though, and that's what I'm looking for.

I do agree that it's wiser to prioritize your life above women. Although I recommend socializing to some degree to be prepared and confident when the day comes.

 

[JaegerPilot217]

If this is truly accurate, true, then I like to view it as karma for women, for all those years of rejecting and friend-zoning guys, teasing and leading them on, labeling them creepy, stalker, weirdo and getting security or the cops involved if it goes that far meanwhile those guys never meant any harm towards the girl and she gets away with it because the law is on women's side more than men's side, making the shy, timid, quiet socially awkward guys have to overcome shyness and social anxiety or any form of a social deficiency, meanwhile girls can be shy, quiet, timid, have social anxiety, socially awkward, be a recluse and they have a much better chance of getting a relationship and getting laid than guys who are like that

 

[Uncharted]

Haha why is this cruel? I think this is awesome.

Being in my late 20s and doing well that's probably why. It's easier to get girls in their early to mid 20s. I have way more value than any "competition" the same age as them. Same as in high school / college. Always dated younger girls.

 

[Dreesy]

I have been noticing this myself. I am at the pivotal point where I am starting to look really good, and the girls I used to chase after.. Well.. Not so much.

You can actually feel the shift in power, and it's a little strange at first when you find older women are pining for you - without you having to do anything.

 

[JaegerPilot217]

i believe what I posted above, that is the karma girls get and deserve for making us guys go through that, well us guys that were not born naturals with girls

 

[JoeMarron]

It's possible, but a substantial number of women are still aging like absolute crap. You can see it in everyday life.

True. Ironically with the obesity epidemic and just bad health in general the population is getting uglier.

I think the value increase comes more from an attitude shift as a man reaches his 30's than the accumulation of wealth and status. There's far too many bums getting play left and right and far too many wealthy dudes struggling to assume that its just wealth and status that'll get a man success with women in his 30's. It would be a shame for a man with an unattractive attitude to bust his ass for 10 years in his career, reach his 30's with the same attitude and expect women to flock to him. Sure if he's fit and wealthy he might be able to get more play than the average dude but if his game, attitude, alpha mindset, whatever you wanna call it isn't right then he won't be able to have any lasting success.

 

[JaegerPilot217]

True. Ironically with the obesity epidemic and just bad health in general the population is getting uglier.

I think the value increase comes more from an attitude shift as a man reaches his 30's than the accumulation of wealth and status. There's far too many bums getting play left and right and far too many wealthy dudes struggling to assume that its just wealth and status that'll get a man success with women in his 30's. It would be a shame for a man with an unattractive attitude to bust his ass for 10 years in his career, reach his 30's with the same attitude and expect women to flock to him. Sure if he's fit and wealthy he might be able to get more play than the average dude but if his game, attitude, alpha mindset, whatever you wanna call it isn't right then he won't be able to have any lasting success.

It would also completely suck if a guy didn't have any success in his teens and 20's with girls because those years are the sexual prime years for us guys

 

[TheODB]

I have been noticing this myself. I am at the pivotal point where I am starting to look really good, and the girls I used to chase after.. Well.. Not so much.

You can actually feel the shift in power, and it's a little strange at first when you find older women are pining for you - without you having to do anything.

Ain't that the truth. As a 26 year old, I'm seeing this more and more. Case in point: Chick I went to high school with that I never really had much contact with other than as a Facebook friend. She's a gorgeous redhead who had a rack to die for and swimsuit model abs (who did a decent amount of amateur modeling). Sometime in the past year/year and a half, she put on a considerable amount of weight for no apparent reason. You could tell because up until that point, she was quite the online exhibitionist, posting tons of pictures of herself in bikinis and whatnot. Afterwards, her entire social media presence became a lot more modest. Although it looks like she's dropping weight, her facial structure has changed in a way that I can't really describe except that she looks older. She doesn't have wrinkles or anything, but it's either something about the way she styles herself or some non-specific facial change that makes her seem that way. She's also the definition of a dumb attention wh0re/party chick; never went to real college, seems to have no real interest outside of partying, has used bartending to make a living for the past eight years and probably flirted or slept her way into one of those "executive secretary" positions. I'd say that two years ago, she was a prime candidate for a pump and dump. :rock:

I've noticed the same thing happening to a lot of other chicks too. They start looking older, different, usually not in a better way, and it seems to start at around age 25. I'm starting to think that maybe 22 is the peak age for most (not all, mind you) women. Looks like that Taylor Swift was onto something.

 

[PlayHer Man]

Excellent thread.

This is why men should spin plates and not give a f*ck.. especially in their youth. It just gets easier as you age because a man's value rises over time while a woman's falls.

TIME --> A man's best friend.. a woman's worst enemy.

Men who prioritize women too early in life and waste their time seeking a soul mate will lose out financially and emotionally. Those men will end up missing out on wealth (or robbed of it via divorce) and will waste valuable time that could of been spent developing themselves physically, mentally, emotionally and financially.

When a man is in a serious relationship he stops growing and improving. There is simply no time because he has to focus on the woman. This is no accident. WHY would a woman want her man to improve so he can LEVEL UP from her? No woman wants that.. so she keeps her man's self-esteem as low as possible and tries to control him as much as possible. Its clear as day if you open your eyes. This is why men who come out of serious relationships are highly beta and clueless for a long time before they get their mojo back.

Be patient and be smart gentlemen. Use your youth to gain experience and wisdom. Spin plates. Learn about money. Develop skills. Read books. Invest. Plan. Take your time. When you're 30-45 there will be a line out the door of women who want to marry you.

But you'll probably just sleep with them a few times and put them in the friend zone. After all.. you worked hard.. YOU DESERVE THE WORLD. Just like women did when they were 22 and smokin' hot. :yes:

True. Ironically with the obesity epidemic and just bad health in general the population is getting uglier.

I think the value increase comes more from an attitude shift as a man reaches his 30's than the accumulation of wealth and status. There's far too many bums getting play left and right and far too many wealthy dudes struggling to assume that its just wealth and status that'll get a man success with women in his 30's. It would be a shame for a man with an unattractive attitude to bust his ass for 10 years in his career, reach his 30's with the same attitude and expect women to flock to him. Sure if he's fit and wealthy he might be able to get more play than the average dude but if his game, attitude, alpha mindset, whatever you wanna call it isn't right then he won't be able to have any lasting success.

Also very true and very important. A man needs to develop his mind more than anything else. Wisdom is key.

Wealth and status is great when you have the wisdom to utilize it. If you have the beta fag mindset, you'll f*ck it all up.

 

[Night-hawk]

^^^True on so many levels and this can become a detriment to men (younger for sure).

When a man is in a serious relationship he stops growing and improving. There is simply no time because he has to focus on the woman. This is no accident. WHY would a woman want her man to improve so he can LEVEL UP from her? No woman wants that.. so she keeps her man's self-esteem as low as possible and tries to control him as much as possible. Its clear as day if you open your eyes. This is why men who come out of serious relationships are highly beta and clueless for a long time before they get their mojo back.

This has rung true in its own way in my past relationship, unfortunately. Learnt my lessons there.

 

[JoeMarron]

When a man is in a serious relationship he stops growing and improving. There is simply no time because he has to focus on the woman. This is no accident. WHY would a woman want her man to improve so he can LEVEL UP from her? No woman wants that.. so she keeps her man's self-esteem as low as possible and tries to control him as much as possible. Its clear as day if you open your eyes. This is why men who come out of serious relationships are highly beta and clueless for a long time before they get their mojo back.

I disagree. To steal your term only the "beta faggots" go into relationships and stagnate. A real man does whatever he pleases relationship or not while his woman works to please him. The DJ Bible itself tells us to focus on ourselves, use women as an enhancement to life not as the sole reason for living. I agree that it's easier for men to grow and improve when they're single though.

 

[JaegerPilot217]

Yes it is still completely very possible to grow and improve yourself while dating someone, besides having a girlfriend can be a huge confidence booster, even Carlos Xuma says so

 

[PlayHer Man]

I disagree. To steal your term only the "beta faggots" go into relationships and stagnate. A real man does whatever he pleases relationship or not while his woman works to please him. The DJ Bible itself tells us to focus on ourselves, use women as an enhancement to life not as the sole reason for living. I agree that it's easier for men to grow and improve when they're single though.

True. I would take it a step further and say only beta faggots fully commit to ONE woman. Why would a man stick to one woman when he can have many?

But since the vast majority of men are beta fags.. and the only men who NEED my advice are beta fags... I'm mostly talking to those men when I post.

DJ's don't need my advice. They already know.

 

[JaegerPilot217]

True. I would take it a step further and say only beta faggots fully commit to ONE woman. Why would a man stick to one woman when he can have many?

But since the vast majority of men are beta fags.. and the only men who NEED my advice are beta fags... I'm mostly talking to those men when I post.

DJ's don't need my advice. They already know.

Yeah as much as women say they dislike players, the reality is they do because they want a guy who has a lot of options