"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Enduring Success, infinity, this is the key.

I just had a thought in addition to my previous thread on daily goals.

Lifepaths

A lot of us don't know what we want to do in life. Some know, and will stop at nothing to achieve it. Some know, but haven't thought it out enough. Some don't care.

How about this, plan out multiple scenarious for your life, at a 5-10 year plan. The best CEOs of the world do 100 year plans for their companies, with every possible scenario written out. We can definately do 5-10 year scenario goals.

For instance, for high schoolers, plan out what you will do if you get into the college of your choice, if you have to go to community college, if you don't go to college. Have set paths, with yearly goals, with endings. Don't be optimistic, don't be pessimistic, be somewhere in the middle, and lean accordingly (not to contradict myself, but be the master, stay up, be confident in yourself, you can do it). Hope for the best, but prepare for the worst. For 21 and above, I won't get into details, you guys have this covered , but making plans for what you will do in your life, and what will happen in your life is a must. For you older men, you probably won't listen to a ****y 18 year old who thinks he knows everything. Too bad. Tomorrow I write out my 5-10, I hope you guys do too.

*Nothing gets a girl's panties wet like a man on a mission.

*The world is your urinal, and you just drank a gallon of water.

*Fairy tales of grander are not just for kids.

*Vote for Pedro
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Heh... cool.
 
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