"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Enduring Success, infinity, this is the key.

I just had a thought in addition to my previous thread on daily goals.

Lifepaths

A lot of us don't know what we want to do in life. Some know, and will stop at nothing to achieve it. Some know, but haven't thought it out enough. Some don't care.

How about this, plan out multiple scenarious for your life, at a 5-10 year plan. The best CEOs of the world do 100 year plans for their companies, with every possible scenario written out. We can definately do 5-10 year scenario goals.

For instance, for high schoolers, plan out what you will do if you get into the college of your choice, if you have to go to community college, if you don't go to college. Have set paths, with yearly goals, with endings. Don't be optimistic, don't be pessimistic, be somewhere in the middle, and lean accordingly (not to contradict myself, but be the master, stay up, be confident in yourself, you can do it). Hope for the best, but prepare for the worst. For 21 and above, I won't get into details, you guys have this covered , but making plans for what you will do in your life, and what will happen in your life is a must. For you older men, you probably won't listen to a ****y 18 year old who thinks he knows everything. Too bad. Tomorrow I write out my 5-10, I hope you guys do too.

*Nothing gets a girl's panties wet like a man on a mission.

*The world is your urinal, and you just drank a gallon of water.

*Fairy tales of grander are not just for kids.

*Vote for Pedro
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Heh... cool.
 
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