"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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VikingKing

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So I just found out that one of my closest friends overdosed on herion last night. He is braindead, they are keeping him alive until his father gets there.

Its fvcked up. Me and this dude were best friends in highschool. Drank together, fought each other twice (once for fun, once out of anger). Now he is dead, just like that.

Right now, I don't feel anything about it. Is that weird?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I lost someone close to me today too. I don't feel anything yet either, it hasn't set in. Don't feel like you have to react in any sort of way, just do what feels natural to you.
 

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My good workmate lost his good friend last week - the drop down dead, leave a wife and two young kids, at the age of 40, totally clean-living kind of scenario. Talking to my mate a few days after, we decided that the only certainty we can fathom is that, when it's time, it's time. Full stop.

As an aside, I had a diagnosis of potential left ventricular hypertrophy on Friday. Such is life, indeed. We get on and carry on. And enjoy.

It's not until we stare mortality square in the face that we fully appreciate the precious gift lying in the palms of our hands, every single time we wake up. Get on with it fellas. Just get on with it. Never let a single thing stand in your way.
 
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