"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Life Without Sex: The Third Phase of the Asexuality Movement

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http://www.theatlantic.com/health/a...hird-phase-of-the-asexuality-movement/254880/

Is this a way that frustrated men - who have been shut out of sexual relations because of female hypergamy - eventually deal with their situation? IOW, they strike out so much - or at least determine that they would strike out if they tried, etc. - that they consciously (or unconsciously) come to the conclusion that the effort and inevitable rejection of going out and trying to pickup women is too high compared to the very low rate of success, that simply they develop the schema that they were not all that interested to begin with?

This seems to be a little different from the forced loneliness movement, in which the men grudgingly accept their situation, but would rather not be in it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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All the more reason to legalize prostitution if only to prevent another Sodini.
 

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Dudes like the guy heading the movement are either closet homos or just like you said they're rationalizing not getting women.
 

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I was expecting a picture of an overweight shlub but that guy actually isn't too bad looking (no homo haha). I wonder if they still wank it?
 

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I work in the field of molecular biology and manage 48 research scientists.

Of these many are from India and China, 95% married, but functionally omega.

The thing to note is that their system allows for them to have female companionship while they are FREE TO DO ACTUAL PRODUCTIVE WORK TO FURTHER SCIENCE AND THE HUMAN RACE... In India nerds get married quite easily. This leaves them free to do science knowing there is at least one woman that cares about them, in america these dudes wouldn't get within a mile of a chick....but then we as americans lose because our nerd population is so pissed off and depressed.

the way I see it, nerds are our fvcking salvation....lets give them what they need to be happy and let them use their nerdiness to help us all.

Its all well and good to mock nerds and omegas but remember nerds develop computers, cars, lightbulbs, the cure to cancer....having easy sexual female comfort readily available to omegas might actually be good for all of us.

think about it next time to you want to mock them.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Burroughs said:
I work in the field of molecular biology and manage 48 research scientists.

Of these many are from India and China, 95% married, but functionally omega.

The thing to note is that their system allows for them to have female companionship while they are FREE TO DO ACTUAL PRODUCTIVE WORK TO FURTHER SCIENCE AND THE HUMAN RACE... In India nerds get married quite easily. This leaves them free to do science knowing there is at least one woman that cares about them, in america these dudes wouldn't get within a mile of a chick....but then we as americans lose because our nerd population is so pissed off and depressed.

the way I see it, nerds are our fvcking salvation....lets give them what they need to be happy and let them use their nerdiness to help us all.

Its all well and good to mock nerds and omegas but remember nerds develop computers, cars, lightbulbs, the cure to cancer....having easy sexual female comfort readily available to omegas might actually be good for all of us.

think about it next time to you want to mock them.
It used to be this way. This is why we had marriage.
 

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sounds to me like a case of closet bi-sexualism, and not so much of "girls be *****es"
 

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Good. Omega males bailing out leaves more for the rest of us.
The women that the omega might occasionally get are not the same as the ones the alphas and even betas get. Omegas usually get desperation sex from bottom-rung super-ugs. A ton of omegas dropping out of the dating pool would just make spinsters of a lot of fuglies that would never come onto our radars anyway. The only part of the gene pool this will affect are the lowest rungs of the ladder which hopefully all the guys here have climbed past already.

And keep in mind that no matter how handsome a man is, once he starts behaving "asexually" around women he immediately falls into omega territory. It's worst than being gay, from a desireability standpoint.. it's like being a eunuch.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Zarky said:
And keep in mind that no matter how handsome a man is, once he starts behaving "asexually" around women he immediately falls into omega territory. It's worst than being gay, from a desireability standpoint.. it's like being a eunuch.
Interesting. I typically act asexually around ugly women - e.g., when I'm at a get-together and my friend's fat wives try to urge me to go after one of their fat friends, I act like "I'm not ready for a relationship right now", when in fact I'd be very ready if the friends were decently attractive.
 
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