I think while it is important to live your life, it is even more so to be responsible. By that i mean to your children. marriage problems is a sure way to psychologically damage your children (if they are still young). Can you really live a "better life" if you knew that as the result of your actions, your sweet little girl cries herself to sleep every night? (example)
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Life is too short: role of marriage, sex, cheating, etc...
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