"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Life is so much easier...

K2000kidd

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With my last girlfriend I found i was putting more work into keeping her interested and maintaining her interest level than i did just having a good time. Now i find that i've narrowed my dating pool down to women who i never really had to "build" any attraction with, it was just there.

I know its kinda passive but lifes a whole lot easier when a woman is just into you from the get go .
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Kal0051

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And what if you can't find women that are into you from the get go? It's a sad state of affairs but even average women have such high standards that they reject most of the guys that approach them. The truth is that most guys will have to do tons of work to attract women.
 

K2000kidd

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Kal0051 said:
The truth is that most guys will have to do tons of work to attract women.
I agree on all levels with that. We preach about not putting them on a pedestal but the right body and the right face still keep us working for it.
 
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