"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Life is so much easier...

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K2000kidd

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With my last girlfriend I found i was putting more work into keeping her interested and maintaining her interest level than i did just having a good time. Now i find that i've narrowed my dating pool down to women who i never really had to "build" any attraction with, it was just there.

I know its kinda passive but lifes a whole lot easier when a woman is just into you from the get go .
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Kal0051

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And what if you can't find women that are into you from the get go? It's a sad state of affairs but even average women have such high standards that they reject most of the guys that approach them. The truth is that most guys will have to do tons of work to attract women.
 
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Kal0051 said:
The truth is that most guys will have to do tons of work to attract women.
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I agree on all levels with that. We preach about not putting them on a pedestal but the right body and the right face still keep us working for it.
 
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