"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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LIFE IS NOT LIKE IN THE MOVIES !! DAVID WYGANT s bull****

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ALPHAROMEO

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got this ol book by DAVID WYGANT " talk to strangers "

HE GIVES THE READER CONVO PATTERNS THAT ARE DRAWN FROM THE SORT OF ROMANTIC FILMS WOMEN ARE ADDICTeD TO

PERFECT 10 SHE STANDS RITE IN FRONT OF THE GUY HE FIND THE PERFECT FUNNY LINE TO OPEN HER with SHE SAYS SOMETHING funny TO HIM , HE GETS HER DIGITS AND IN THE EVENING THEY ****


life s simply not like that


how many times have i found myself at a loss for what to say to a broad coming my way ( hence the point of having the same openers )
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You don't know what to say because you spend too much time on the internet trying to learn "openers" and remembering how the line goes.

Instead, just realize that you're awesome and then it won't matter what you say. You don't need "game". You just need you.
 

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NickSkratch said:
You don't know what to say because you spend too much time on the internet trying to learn "openers" and remembering how the line goes.

Instead, just realize that you're awesome and then it won't matter what you say. You don't need "game". You just need you.
I concur. More to the point that nothing beats actual experience. I, personally, NEVER used "lines". I was always, and still am, pretty straight forward.. I don't ever purposely try and sound clever.. That effort will fall flat on it's face.
 

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Using scripted openers is announcing to the women that you are beta-male.

If you have charm and wit, you can use the situation accordingly to open up a conversation, you don't need lame openers in an attempt to make her laugh.
 

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NickSkratch said:
You don't know what to say because you spend too much time on the internet trying to learn "openers" and remembering how the line goes.

Instead, just realize that you're awesome and then it won't matter what you say. You don't need "game". You just need you.
Yea - you just need you. Oh and also "Be Yourself".:rolleyes:

And if you believe that, you'll believe I have a pet Sasquatch.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Alpharomeo, I know English isn't your first language, but your posts are disruptive and hard to read. Lay off the caps and clean up your posts so we can promote intelligent discussion.

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