"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Life is literally just a dominance hierarchy

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It goes far beyond mating and sex

I see it on forums, in the workplace, in the family. It's everywhere

The question for me used to be Science vs Religion

But I've come to realize they're both the same

Go to church & hear about submission, giving up your body, forgiveness, kneeling to God, praying etc

The word Islam literally means "Surrender"

It's the ultimate dominance hierarchy, it's clever, it's political

And you'd expect nothing less from the advanced cousins of chimps
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I call bullsh*t on your lame ideas.

I think the world is based on equality, even-ness and fairness.

My idea about the fairness of human nature is much, much better than your ideas about hierarchical human nature.

In fact my ideas about human nature are the best ideas on this goddamned forum.

On the goddamn planet!

If everybody was like me the world would be a much better place.

Goddamn monkey people....

 

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Have you been listening to Jordan Peterson lately?
 

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It goes far beyond mating and sex

I see it on forums, in the workplace, in the family. It's everywhere
I kind of agree with you on this and i think its basic human nature and its how we as human have been able to progress so far.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I call bullsh*t on your lame ideas.

I think the world is based on equality, even-ness and fairness.

My idea about the fairness of human nature is much, much better than your ideas about hierarchical human nature.

In fact my ideas about human nature are the best ideas on this goddamned forum.

On the goddamn planet!

If everybody was like me the world would be a much better place.

Goddamn monkey people....

Irony....
I actually see a need for dominance in this post.

Good one !
 
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And you'd expect nothing less from the advanced cousins of chimps
Why say it in a derogatory manner?

An eagle sees a mouse and they both know what the deal is. Immediately! Nobody needs to explain it to them!

We humans have thoughts and words, which makes everything complicated. Though, we all know the fvcking deal underneath the superficiality of it all.
 

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I agree, even freemasons have a hierarchical pyramid where certain information is imparted to initiates. Everyone on this forum is a the bottom of the grand pyramid, you might be higher in your social circles or job, but in the grand scheme we are bottom of the rung. Only the few reach the top of the pyramid, nature is in different
 

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1. It’s literally only because of the need for social interaction, and if you don’t turn the pre-existing environment (whatever it may be) into a social landscape, then it won’t become a hierarchy.
2. We didn’t come from ****ing apes. I’m sick of that evolution bullcrap and the fact that no one has ever even questioned it. We only keep that crap around just to keep the Christians at bay, really.
The word Islam literally means "Surrender"
No, it means “submission”; the word ‘surrender’ implies giving up.

The literal term for it means “peace”, too. Hence سلام عليكم (peace be with you).
 

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1. It’s literally only because of the need for social interaction, and if you don’t turn the pre-existing environment (whatever it may be) into a social landscape, then it won’t become a hierarchy.
2. We didn’t come from ****ing apes. I’m sick of that evolution bullcrap and the fact that no one has ever even questioned it. We only keep that crap around just to keep the Christians at bay, really.

No, it means “submission”; the word ‘surrender’ implies giving up.

The literal term for it means “peace”, too. Hence سلام عليكم (peace be with you).
My bad. Knew it was one of the two
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Christianity built great kingdoms, all over the world. Evolution? Holes being poked in that theory all the time. When you compare the two so casually, you come off as an idiot.

The more man thinks he knows, the more he looks like a fool.

There's a reason religions can create great empires. It's because people have something to look forward to beyond their own fleeting desires. They work hard now, believing there is something greater in their future.

We don't have that now in the Western world. We have hedonism; and life missions lol. It's a wonder that we aren't good at anything these days, except dying off in droves by drugs and alcohol. People have nothing to live for!

Take you, for instance. Supposedly happily married guy, coming on a forum to tell men how to get laid! And your advice ultimately boils down to "fvck her good." lol as if fvcking is that difficult. As if the guy across the street from you is oblivious to how fvcking works. And your wife will be immune to his charms because you're kind of good at it.
 

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Christianity built great kingdoms, all over the world. What did science do? Evolution? Holes being poked in that theory all the time. When you compare the two so casually, you come off as an idiot.

The more man thinks he knows, the more he looks like a fool.

There's a reason religions can create great empires. It's because people have something to look forward to beyond their own fleeting desires. They work hard now, believing there is something greater in their future.

We don't have that now in the Western world. We have hedonism; and life missions lol. It's a wonder that we aren't good at anything these days, except dying off in droves by drugs and alcohol. People have nothing to live for!

Take you, for instance. Supposedly happily married guy, coming on a forum to tell men how to get laid! And your advice ultimately boils down to "fvck her good." lol as if fvcking is that difficult. As if the guy across the street from you is oblivious to how fvcking works. And your wife is will be immune to his charms because you're kind of good at it.
I didn't realize my posts came across that way

I don't tell men how to get laid & I don't know everything

I just share my own experiences

That guy spent his time writing poems instead of just hooking up

It's wishy washy and stupid and girls don't like it

I think that's good advice/insight for a forum like this

I am guilty of adding a little dark humor/drama because why not
 
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I agree with you more often than not. You seem to have the right mind-frame.

I was just chin-checking you, bud. No harm meant :)
 

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If we were just just animals we would not have creative thought. A beaver is alive. So is a chimp. Yet they operate completely upon instinctual programs.

It has been proven that survival instincts are passed down. Here is an example I can attest to. In the 80’s a hunter took a latex diaphragm turkey call, grabbed a vacuum cleaner hose and could sound a challenge, with volume, to engage and bring in another bull elk so that he could drive an arrow through the bull.
Fast forward. Presently, today, bull elk will not bugle during the day in many areas of the mountains. They are aggressively switching their breeding rituals to dark hours.
This is a learned survival experience being passed down to offspring through generations.

If something happens to a man, he can assess and change almost immediately due to his ability to reason and extrapolate a future outcome. So biologically, yes, we still have the basic genome. But there is something else that governs a man’s thoughts and ideas. Men shape reality and creates his own universe every second of every day.

This is why governments, media, social pressure etc. must program a man. Using his biology against him to control him and his very fundamental thoughts. He gets turned into a trained bird dog.

Until the man realizes that he does this of his own volition and can disagree at any time, he remains a bird dog and serves the feminine imperative.
 

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If we were just just animals we would not have creative thought. A beaver is alive. So is a chimp. Yet they operate completely upon instinctual programs.

It has been proven that survival instincts are passed down. Here is an example I can attest to. In the 80’s a hunter took a latex diaphragm turkey call, grabbed a vacuum cleaner hose and could sound a challenge, with volume, to engage and bring in another bull elk so that he could drive an arrow through the bull.
Fast forward. Presently, today, bull elk will not bugle during the day in many areas of the mountains. They are aggressively switching their breeding rituals to dark hours.
This is a learned survival experience being passed down to offspring through generations.

If something happens to a man, he can assess and change almost immediately due to his ability to reason and extrapolate a future outcome. So biologically, yes, we still have the basic genome. But there is something else that governs a man’s thoughts and ideas. Men shape reality and creates his own universe every second of every day.

This is why governments, media, social pressure etc. must program a man. Using his biology against him to control him and his very fundamental thoughts. He gets turned into a trained bird dog.

Until the man realizes that he does this of his own volition and can disagree at any time, he remains a bird dog and serves the feminine imperative.
I get what you're saying. And that's my point as well with religion. Pastors and clergymen are some of the weakest fvcks going yet they have so much power and we all know the abuses that comes with that

I guess some people are sneaky and use ways to "get around" the hierarchy. Even women do this

And I hate to keep using chimps as the example but they display this behaviour too. Research shows the alpha chimp is not biggest or the strongest but the most influential and political of the group
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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