"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Life is a Game!

HoneyHitter

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Clint Eastwood said:
It's too bad that this board has degenerated into flame wars. I agree with you that it sucks when someone posts something good in order to help others understand this game better, some a$$hole always has to post something negative to compensate for being such a loser.
We should criticize the post, NOT the poster.

All of us have (had) a pretty flawed idea of reality, or else we would not be here trying - and most of us merely hoping - to improve our ability to enjoy women. And life in general.

All the flaming is lowering the average value of a thread on sosuave.net .
I have a solution for this problem.

Introducing the Battle Zone
The Battle Zone is the portion of the site dedicated to personal attacks.
If you don't like someone's post and want to say "he's dumb", "fvck off!" or anything like that, you should start a thread about that person and post flames in the Battle Zone. Anyone who uses any kind of negative adjective or noun to refer to someone on this forum should be warned after the first violation and banned at the second. Period.

The Battle Zone Protocol
There should be no censorship in the Battle Zone. If it's possible, everyone who enters the Battle Zone for the first time should be warned that he/she may be exposed to personal attacks.(moderators?) You should agree that this forum cannot be held responsible for any of your actions that may have been triggered by posts in the Battle Zone.

You may not defend yourself in the Battle Zone. You may only attack others by starting a thread about THEM in the Battle Zone. In other words: if someone starts a post about YOU in the Battle Zone, you are NOT allowed to post in that thread. Start a counter-attack if you want to flame back.


So what do you think about this?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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