"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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SgtSplacker

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Date with girl from the internet. Were sitting and I ask her "Whats your favorite thing?" She answers "nothing"... well OK then I ask "What do you think about often?" She answers "Winning the lotto". She does have a kid so maybe that's her "hobby" but am I right in thinking it's a red flag not to have goals and interests? Worried that if things get more serious she just might be up my arse all the time.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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From the limited information you have shared she sounds very bland. I think your worry is precise. Trust your gut.
 
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