Life cofidence
Life confidence is the key tool that driven individuals have in their arsenal for achieving success especially in America. Before I began this stimulating and protracted narration of the events that led to my acquirement of life confidence, it is vitally important to understand my characterization of life confidence it self. I would describe life confidence as the resolute believe in once self to accomplish set goals, the believe that one has about his passions in life and gives him the courage to follow these passions and lead a happy and productive life, generally become a winner. From life before confidence, to the experience of discovering it, and life after ascertainment is journey I will never forget. It also a very entertaining story if I do say so my self.
My life for the past seventeen years, has been unproductive to say the least. I have always had doubts and worries and uncertainties that had managed to cripple my potential. I was never good at sports, though I have god given ability and talent. I have never been a scholar or a high achiever in academics, though I am very intelligent and capable. I have never been able to make good long term friends, though I am very funny and entertaining. Lastly and most depressing of all I have never had much luck with the opposite sex, though obviously I am a very hansom. So why doesn't an Intelligent,
athletic, handsome and charming young man like my self have any genuine success in his life? Because I was missing the one ingredient that would unlock doors and open the universe to me, I had not discovered life confidence yet.
At 8:27 AM on July 9th 2005 I died at Huntington 17th station. I don’t remember how or what happened , but they tell me that I drowned. I was lost under water for a while, fortunately not long enough to go brain dead or any thing but long enough to loose consciousness, loose vital signs and be a put in a coma like state for 51 hours. Even though I dint actually lose my life that day, when I woke up I was totally a changed person. After I woke up I began to think about what if had died, what had I accomplished? In all aspects of my life I really hadn't done anything spectacular, not because lack of talent but because of fear. In every situation I though of I had failed because I had fear; fear of rejection, fear of failure, fear of loneliness, fear of disappointment ect. ect. After I had discovered the root of my fears I was able to over come them, build my self-esteem and eventually become life confident.
This process took about a week to complete, a remarkably short period of time considering I how long I had previously been living. Life after my transformation has been awesome, its only been three months but my progress has been incredible. In athletics I am progressing well in my new sport of surfing, lifting more weights than ever though possible and getting my body in to shape I could once only dream of. In academics I find all my classes are easier, I study less get better grades in tests and generally enjoy school more. Socially I make friends where ever I go, in the last three months I have made more new friends than last 3 years combined. The most enjoyable aspect of my transformation has been the area of women. Since July I have gone from no girls to more girls than I could handle. Quiet frankly I am becoming the Don Juan I have always wanted to be.
Since the day I drowned I have become a changed man. I now have clear goals in life, I am able to achieve these goals because of my mindset. I can see things more clearly, I always have a positive outlook and attitude in all situations. I find I am less stressed and tend to enjoy life more. I know I am a stronger more tougher person than before, I tend to care less about other peoples approval of me. No doubt this experience has enriched my life, I am confident I will be successful at any think I do, because of this experience. As you can probably tell thanks to this experience, I possess a very large now.
Life confidence is the key tool that driven individuals have in their arsenal for achieving success especially in America. Before I began this stimulating and protracted narration of the events that led to my acquirement of life confidence, it is vitally important to understand my characterization of life confidence it self. I would describe life confidence as the resolute believe in once self to accomplish set goals, the believe that one has about his passions in life and gives him the courage to follow these passions and lead a happy and productive life, generally become a winner. From life before confidence, to the experience of discovering it, and life after ascertainment is journey I will never forget. It also a very entertaining story if I do say so my self.
My life for the past seventeen years, has been unproductive to say the least. I have always had doubts and worries and uncertainties that had managed to cripple my potential. I was never good at sports, though I have god given ability and talent. I have never been a scholar or a high achiever in academics, though I am very intelligent and capable. I have never been able to make good long term friends, though I am very funny and entertaining. Lastly and most depressing of all I have never had much luck with the opposite sex, though obviously I am a very hansom. So why doesn't an Intelligent,
athletic, handsome and charming young man like my self have any genuine success in his life? Because I was missing the one ingredient that would unlock doors and open the universe to me, I had not discovered life confidence yet.
At 8:27 AM on July 9th 2005 I died at Huntington 17th station. I don’t remember how or what happened , but they tell me that I drowned. I was lost under water for a while, fortunately not long enough to go brain dead or any thing but long enough to loose consciousness, loose vital signs and be a put in a coma like state for 51 hours. Even though I dint actually lose my life that day, when I woke up I was totally a changed person. After I woke up I began to think about what if had died, what had I accomplished? In all aspects of my life I really hadn't done anything spectacular, not because lack of talent but because of fear. In every situation I though of I had failed because I had fear; fear of rejection, fear of failure, fear of loneliness, fear of disappointment ect. ect. After I had discovered the root of my fears I was able to over come them, build my self-esteem and eventually become life confident.
This process took about a week to complete, a remarkably short period of time considering I how long I had previously been living. Life after my transformation has been awesome, its only been three months but my progress has been incredible. In athletics I am progressing well in my new sport of surfing, lifting more weights than ever though possible and getting my body in to shape I could once only dream of. In academics I find all my classes are easier, I study less get better grades in tests and generally enjoy school more. Socially I make friends where ever I go, in the last three months I have made more new friends than last 3 years combined. The most enjoyable aspect of my transformation has been the area of women. Since July I have gone from no girls to more girls than I could handle. Quiet frankly I am becoming the Don Juan I have always wanted to be.
Since the day I drowned I have become a changed man. I now have clear goals in life, I am able to achieve these goals because of my mindset. I can see things more clearly, I always have a positive outlook and attitude in all situations. I find I am less stressed and tend to enjoy life more. I know I am a stronger more tougher person than before, I tend to care less about other peoples approval of me. No doubt this experience has enriched my life, I am confident I will be successful at any think I do, because of this experience. As you can probably tell thanks to this experience, I possess a very large now.
