Life changing stuff

[5string]

The "stuff" will be for another thread.

Anyway, life has changed dramatically for Uncle 5string and his woman. In short, inherited a 10 yr old boy. Great kid. It's cramped my style having another person in the house. Basically, my sex and personal life has taken a hit.

I'm pretty wound up right now and so is the wife. We received a gift basket yesterday that had some misseltoe in it and I felt like saying, "I know, let's hang it over the bed and see if somebody around here will get laid!" Then I thought the better of it and kept my mouth shut. Got to thinking, rather than whine about it, gonna have to make some adjustments at the house and redefine my game.

What I'm saying is that I concluded that I don't want to b!tch about it and then receive what I call "courtesy sex", because it's not much fun unless both if us want it and need it. Know what I'm saying? Any suggestions are welcome.

Gonna take Mrs.5string out to a party tonight, have some ****tails, get her into bed with the door locked and game on. Just feel a little cheated in that there is no more bangin' in the kitchen, on the couch, etc. I really enjoyed that and it was way fun for both of us.

I guess it is what it is. Will let you all know what my ultimate plan is and whether or not it works.

 

[vatoloco]

Brother, hopefully you did the right thing and didn't legally adopt!

IDK, my Spider Sense still tingles with this kid...

 

[SecondHalf]

Given that I'm a single father and had the boy returned to me after a year, I've figured a few tricks out.

He'll make friends around his new home.
I was quick to encourage my son to have sleep overs now and then (they're reciprocated

Camp is also your friend. Throw the money at it in the summer.

A kid that wakes up early, gets sleepy early. This one is important too.

If you don't have a small stereo in your bedroom, or a television, get one!

Now that my son is older, I moved him to the basement (a full basement bedroom). He loves it. We have an agreement that at night he doesn't come up to the third floor.

Make sure you find a hot babysitter that the boy likes, this makes him actually encourage you and Mrs 5String to have a regular date night.

Good luck 5String, it's different, but you get used to it and value your little triumphs more!

SH

 

[Jitterbug]

Uncle 5string,

It's a very silly cultural thing in these Anglosphere countries that sexytime is compromised with kids in the house, despite the average house here being like a castle vs elsewhere in the world. Most families on Earth live in tiny houses shared with many others (incl siblings and elderly parents) and have many more children. They don't give a fvck about others hearing their sexytime.

For a country producing the most porn, the loosest women and using sex to sell every imaginable thing, Americans can be weirdly conservative when it comes to having sex in a marriage... lol.

So bang away. The boy won't be scarred for life, trust me. Just put an Xbox in his room and lock his door or tell him go play with his friends outside or something.

 

[5string]

You guys all rock bigtime. Thanks for the advice.

Fri night we just went to bed. Sat night Mrs.5string "sensed" what was up. She's wound up as much as I am so, Sat night we got it on with the doors locked. Got it Sun morning and then I just tore it up last night. BJ, doggie blah blah.

I really didnt do much. We had a little discussion about the privacy we once had and that's all it took. The thing is fellas, I'm convinced that if you have an LTR or are married to a woman, you'd better make darn sure that she has "needs" just like you do or any adjustments you make to reach your goal will be futile. Otherwise, you will be frustrated.

I'll make a thread about my situation a bit later. Please don't be too harsh on me when I do as I'm in a pretty tight spot right now with Mrs.5string's grandson.

Thanks again guys.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I see a lot of parents taking their kids to martial arts lessons, and I always thought that was just another selfless parenting act. Then I happened to talk to a doctor who had an eight and a ten year old in the class. He said that the reason he kept them in martial arts was that every class tired them out so much that all they wanted to do afterward was be quiet and sleep. That's why he kept paying for lessons; it was more than worth it to him.

 

[5string]

I see a lot of parents taking their kids to martial arts lessons, and I always thought that was just another selfless parenting act. Then I happened to talk to a doctor who had an eight and a ten year old in the class. He said that the reason he kept them in martial arts was that every class tired them out so much that all they wanted to do afterward was be quiet and sleep. That's why he kept paying for lessons; it was more than worth it to him.

Hmmmmmm!

Gonna take a walk down to the local dojo and check things out.