"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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TheCalmGuy

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I made this thread so I can informate you people how my life has changed after finding sosuave. Before sosuave, about 6 months ago I came back from school, eated/sleeped played on the pc and sleeped again. Same sh!t everyday, oh and every once in a while I had to go to the bathroom.., I had only 1 girlfriend in the past for about 2-3days, I had no hobbies I was kinda nerdy I can say. Now since I found sosuave I wanted to make a change in my life and I did it. I started guitar lessons and football, and I practice everyday.. guitar owns, its a very nice hobbie other than that I decided to go and find a job so I can fill up my free hours, I found a job as a waiter once a week pretty nice job not alot of money but its okay I just started. I do my homework now everyday and I kinda fixed my grades from 3.3 to 3.5 and growing.. and the best of all a very nice hot hot girl in my school is interested in me but still am not ****ing making a move am interested in her aswell but am not making the first move, I might say I've seen alot of IOIs from her but I still have a lack of confidence. Anyway thanks SoSuave if any of you guys know what I should do so I can grow some balls and make the move with that girl other than Re-re-reading the bible, give some help.
Cheers mates - SoSuave might change your life!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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great ......I'm glad this site changed a fellow person's life.;). Keep it up, and don't take three years to change like i did (sigh.....wish i had a time machine).
 

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Hey, you could devote the next ten years of yyour life making one! But if unsuccessful, that's another ten years gone.:rolleyes:
 

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good work man...but as a DJ it is your responsibility to make a move on the girl....Don't forget!

Anyways congrats on turning your life around and keep pushing to get better
 

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Originally posted by Zaine
Hey, you could devote the next ten years of yyour life making one! But if unsuccessful, that's another ten years gone.:rolleyes:
Youre a retard. If it were up to me all your posts would be closed. And something tells me im not the only one who thinks this... so think before you post.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Zaine

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Originally posted by TonyTheTigerOI
Youre a retard. If it were up to me all your posts would be closed. And something tells me im not the only one who thinks this... so think before you post.
All my posts? I've only started about four. Good point about thinking, already resolved that in "How could this be handled better." Yes, I do say uneccesary posts. Ignore them if they bother you.
 

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if i ignored stupid posts then nobody would improve

i am here to help people - so let me help you by saying - stop being so stupid
 

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take it easy guys
 

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you WERE kinda nerdy? look you just posted a novel on this website, you're STILL a nerd, go get some ***** you ****ing douchebag.
great advice.

however the **** it helps. Ask yourself this question: Are you any better? I doubt it. But if you are, then you can say what you want. Be honest
 

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Originally posted by Lackofsecks
I'm just trying to give some constructive criticism, just pointing out the obvious.
constructive criticism?

dumbass..
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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