"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Life at 630 pounds....

Interceptor

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If you're feeling down on yourself right now....

If you feel NO ONE in the ENTIRE world can possibly relate to you.......


If you feel that you can't escape the life you have to deal with every day.......

If you think your problem is something you simply CANNOT solve.......


Read this.
And be inspired.


http://abcnews.go.com/Health/story?id=4029716&page=1
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ken785

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definitely inspirational! the guy is pretty good looking now... (no homo)
 

KontrollerX

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That trainer is a stand up guy.

The world needs more people like him in it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Maybe they are just in the off season.

MM
 

DrD77

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That's awesome. It's great to know that we still have people in this world who care about other people like that. The man looked totally different. He mentioned he's looking for a woman now. Well good luck to him and welcome to the club. That story inspired me a lot. I'm not overweight, so I have no excuse to get out there and make a life for myself.
 
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