“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Life as a boy-toy: the ultimate stepping stone to dealing with rejection.

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Once again LTR-er's, please change the channel, I am not looking for spiritual guidance into the realm of love. This message is for all of those that are human, and like me, want to get over rejection, jealousy, fear, and the intimidation of being unworthy in the eyes of others.

Being a boytoy is not by any means a remedy for these problems in our lives, but it has certainly brought about a certain level of clarity for me.( Now I can see a majority of the Pook-led-sheep-infested-Don Juans getting upset:rolleyes:Get the fukk over it!!!)

1. The What's!!!
Being a boy toy places you right smack & center within the position of inferiority. The woman, who is usually older and much less attractive than the type gyrls you would phukk, tells you what to do. This usually involves how she sees you and defines the relationship. In many occasions, depending on the how rich the woman is you are probably one of many boy toys on her rolodex, and as such you are on call, with every ounce of self worth you have being held up by her strings. She pays for everything though.*incentive*.

2. The When's !!
She determines where the 2 of you will meet, have sex, or just keep her company. She usually is married and can only see you when her hubby is fukking someone else or away somewhere. None-the-less, you might as well give up partying, cos depending on the consistency of your meetings, you may not even have time to sleep. She pays for everything though.*incentive*.

3. The How's !!
She tells you how she wants you to dress, sleep, and eat. She tells you how she wants you to phukk her, kiss her and massage her.. and for the more sensitive ones she may show you how she wants to be cradled after you've had sex with her. She pays for everything though.*incentive*.

4. The Who's !!
She tells you who you can be seen with around her, and who you can see period. Bottom line she is in charge of who you sleep with. Now in some cases, if you play your position well, and learn your role, your name goes around the entire country club and you become a playmate to all her friends. I would recommend whole-heartedly that you stay away from this, because this is crossing the fine line into becoming a gigolo. Believe it or not there is a difference between the two roles. She pays for everything though.*incentive*.

5. Why and When !!
These are usually together. She tells you almost always when she wants to see you and it's always followed by an explanation. Hence the Why... Usually if she's single and rich, it's because the rigors of work have stressed her out and she needs some way of releasing her pent up energy. If she's married and rich, it means she is horny, and her hubby ain't doing it for her at all. She pays for everything though.*incentive*.

Shocked,...nah don't be. This is what women go through all the time. Placing yourself in this position,.. for a while at least.. gives you a whole new outlook on life and women in general. And basically rids you of the rejection, fear, and intimidation curse.

Oh well, it's just me... Thinking happy thoughts..

The Edge ' Some have it, and some don't '
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I DONT WANT TO BE A D!CK , BUT.....

Ok the Edge, dont take this personally but this is garbage if its advice to DJs what you are trying to Accomplish. Good though that you wrote it , because like this someone can see whats wrong with all that BOY_TOY philosophy.

First i dont care if you are having sex with a woman who is married , with a boyfriend, even tough this is not righteous but atleast is not degrading.(Well if you know the husband or the boyfriend personally and you are friends, it might show that you are bastard and a piece of shyt as a person, but that doesnt make you a boy-toy)

So whats a boy-toy...well a boy toy is a BOY _ TOY ...wtf ...thats so weak, so soft, why be a boy-toy , when you can be a MAN-SEX- MACHINE who woman want to put their hands around him even if it is just to get a taste.

ME personally i would never become a boy- toy because i believe is degrading for a man to be controlled by a woman...no matter who that woman is.......even if she is your wife and the only exception is when you are under 18 and that woman is your mother.


A DJ is the creme of the creme and if he is going to mess with a married wife , or any other woman ..is his way or the highway becasue he respects himself and he knows womens mentality.
There is no need to be a boy-toy i,when you can have sex with the same woman who dont put any rules...and if you are younger..trust me they will pay .....no matter if you are boy-toy or
her secret lover.


"Shocked,...nah don't be. This is what women go through all the time. Placing yourself in this position,.. for a while at least.. gives you a whole new outlook on life and women in general. And basically rids you of the rejection, fear, and intimidation curse."

**** i am shocked this is what you are doing...i tought you had already gotten read of rejection,fear, and intimidation curse ! But the fact that you are saying that this helps get rid of that shocks me even more because is like me saying that woman are attracted to man who have sex often...and then said to my fellow DJs to have sex with whatever they came across a Goat, a Bull, or even a gay bastard. The medicine is worst thatn the curse.......

This is infact what you are advicing ..in order to get rid of those insecurities..well lets do something worst ....lets le a woman tell us what to do and be controlled by her ...ohh and *incentive* wtf... Finally i must add i dont see how that **** gets rid of anything but instead i believe it makes things worst!

YOU WANT TO GET RID OF THE FEAR OF REJECTION >>>
EASY: ASK WOMAN OUT AND KEEP ON GOING UNTIL YOU ARE REJECTED A 100 AND REALIZE THAT IS NOT THAT BIG OF A DEAL>....GET BALLS

YOU WANT To GET RID OF FEAR:
EASY: GET BALLS

YOU WANT TO GET RID OF INTIMIDATION:
EASY: BECOME A MAN GET BALLS

HOW DO YOU GET BALLS:
EASY: WELL one thing for sure , it is not by sleeping with older woman who tell you what to do ....YOU GET BALLS BY LIVING LIFE AS IT IS, BY ASKING YOURSELF ONE QUESTION..? DO YOU WANT TO BE AN AFC OR A DJ?

I AM ASUMING ALL MEMBERS OF SO SUAVE WILL ANSWER DJ..
WELL GUESS WHAT ..not AL MEMBERS ARE GOING TO BE DJS
BECAUSE ITS NOT AN EASY THING TO DO IT TAKES BALLS AND IF YOU ARE A MEMEBER OUTHERE REALIZE THAT TO BE A DJ IT TAKES BALLS and if it didnt take balls everyone would be a DJ.

So finally if anyone is in sosuave ....getting rid of rejection,fear, and intimidation should be a commitment they make to tehmself to put themselves on the line and never stop pushing foward. PERSEVERENCE!

NOT LOWERING THEMSELVES EVEN MORE!!!

I AM OUT!!!!!
 

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Ummm from your response, I would say you are a ****!!!

Originally posted by tiburon
Ok the Edge, dont take this personally
...and then said to my fellow DJs to have sex with whatever they came across a Goat, a Bull, or even a gay bastard. The medicine is worst thatn the curse.......
..I AM OUT!!!!!
Damn dude, you're gonna have a heart attack, if you don't calm down..

Just relax read it again, and if you still feel the same way, drink a beer,... it helps.

Like I said, don't do it if you don't feel comfortable taking part in such activities. If you do,..well then try it...
Oh and never kiss on the lips..

Think happy thoughts...........

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EDGE

dude if you are going to quote somebody have THE BALLS to do it right..and not insert things that can make up any sentence you wish to make.... I just read your article again and to my suprise if eel the same way about you as i felt befor when i read it for the first time...WHAT A FRICKING PVssy


I AM OUT!
 

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Hahaha! I love this post Edge, it is funny!

Oh and never kiss on the lips..
Ha ha!

Good thing you are a guy, and you don't have to deal with pimps taking all of your hard-earned mula!
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Originally posted by icepick
Hahaha! I love this post Edge, it is funny!

Ha ha!

Good thing you are a guy, and you don't have to deal with pimps taking all of your hard-earned mula!
Thanks icepick, Jesus, some people on this site have cocunuts stuck up there as*sess. Look stop making this Don Juan site a religion. Enjoy it... When I first came on this site I couldn't even talk to women. After spending months crafting the bible to fit my personality, I have succeeded with women, and decided to branch off and experiment with my new found confidence, looks and all the while I keep the fundamental bible teachings sacred.

Once again I am just trailblazing my own path in life. I have come so far since last October, its not even funny. Till then I will phukk my way into places I couldn't, and talk my way into the underwear of those who wouldn't HAVE GIVEN ME TWO LOOKS A YEAR AGO.

But while I do this, I plan on doing it creatively and to have fun doing it.

So if you don't like my way of life sit on a stick.. I live life for me..

The Edge ' Some have it, and some don't '
 

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The Edge, it appears as if you might become a guest on an episode of Jerry Springer.

Being a boytoy seems like an interesting lifestyle to lead but getting the attention of jealous alcoholic bodybuilder husbands adds a lot of danger. Maybe you should consider becomming a New Age gigalo (leave the dishonest wives alone) for a stress free existence
 
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Once again The Edge hits the nail on the head without intending to do so.

The way to cope with rejection is to be rejected until it no longer bothers you. Simple. The truth is never that complicated. That's the problem I see so often here, people overanalyzing everything, and outsmarting themselves in the process.

The choice is clear, be a BOY or be a MAN.

Some day you'll grow up Edge, happens to all of us eventually.
 

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Originally posted by DjDreamer
Being a boytoy seems like an interesting lifestyle to lead but getting the attention of jealous alcoholic bodybuilder husbands adds a lot of danger.
If a woman who is married approaches you and is rich:

1. The probability that you will get caught is next to .1%, because she will plan everything to ensure you don't get caught.

2. She is rich and you won't have to pay for shytt.

3. The husband is usually a scrawny rich bastard with no time for his wife and kids.

4. The sex is unbelievable.. She usually tries to fukk the shytt out of you on any encounter.

5.She may think you're the bytchh in the relationship, but as long as you stay in shape, make sure you don't make this a permanent lifestyle, and keep fukking chykks your age (always wear a condom)..she pays for everything and thus she is the one getting played.

Live life, guys..you've paid the price, you've found this site and can develop into much more than you could have ever hoped.. Enjoy it..

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Hmmm

Once again...

Originally posted by DjDreamer: The Edge, it appears as if you might become a guest on an episode of Jerry Springer.
The Edge, do you really want money and fame that badly? You're flirting with danger. You're like a sex soldier.
 

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I've learned not to judge you Edge.

I respect you for the fact that you don't give a sh!t about what anyone else thinks and you live your life on your own terms.

About your post:

I'm a little confused because I used to know a chick who had a t-shirt that said "BoyToy" so I thought it was a female thing.

Anyway your definition of BoyToy sounds like this to me:

Flush all your self respect and dignity down the toilet for sex.

Its great that you like to experiment. Do you consider yourself to be some kind of scientist?

It seems weird to me. If you were as successful with women as you say, wouldn't you have more pVssy around than you knew what to do with? Why bother with the BoyToy thing?
 

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If you play your position well, and learn your role, your name goes around the entire country club and you become a playmate to all her friends. I would recommend whole-heartedly that you stay away from this, because this is crossing the fine line into becoming a gigolo. Believe it or not there is a difference between the two roles.
Either way, the man is the gigalo, with the only minor difference being between a gigalo of one woman and a gigalo of more. Throughout your whole post, you repeatedly talk about entirely losing one's identity to sex; entirely engulfed, entirely devoured; in exchange for money ("She pays for everything").

Now, given how you claim all this 'Life as a boy-toy' brought you to a certain level clarity, what would that be? What is this new outlook on life and women? I am curious.
tiburon:
Good though that you wrote it , because like this someone can see whats wrong with all that BOY_TOY philosophy.
Agreed.
 

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Originally posted by Deep Dish
Now, given how you claim all this 'Life as a boy-toy' brought you to a certain level clarity, what would that be? What is this new outlook on life and women? I am curious.Agreed.
Well for one, while we so called educated well taught DJ's continuously try to craft theories on how to deal with rejection and become confident, and use eye contact, and go work out, and do some rock climbing, develop a hobby, and to learn how not to take shytt from women, women just learn all this by going through life.

Not that I am against this DJ stuff, actually it saved me from a shytt load of pain and heartache, that I could have gone through had I chosen the other fork at the end of the road.

Women learn through pain, suffering, and being treared as second class citizens, in relationships. Matter of fact in the bible we encourage sleeping with more than one woman.

Thus, my new level of clarity???.... Even though this plethera of well structured guidelines set up on this site, exists to help us become men.... There is nothing better than going through rejection, and mistreatment first hand to accomplish full growth and the ability to deal with adversity first hand..

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HOW ABOUT THIS FOR A THEORy

THeories for rejection, fear, intimidation...HOW ABOUT MEN USE THOSE BALLS GOT GAVE THEM!

"Women learn through pain, suffering, and being treared as second class citizens, in relationships. Matter of fact in the bible we encourage sleeping with more than one woman."

Women..what..you make them sound like angels dude..wtf...SECOND CLASS CITIZEN .....what chick flix was that on. Woman lear through suffering, pain, but all fvcking humans do includin MEN.....what you thing woman are angels..FVCK MOST OF THEM ARE HOES,SLUTS, CHEAP PROSTITUTES, OR EXPENSIVE PROSTITUES.

"Thus, my new level of clarity???.... Even though this plethera of well structured guidelines set up on this site, exists to help us become men.... There is nothing better than going through rejection, and mistreatment first hand to accomplish full growth and the ability to deal with adversity first hand.."


Yeah there are many things better than that.....just beig your fvcking self and letting life takes its role on you and liviung on your own with out help of rich parents. Thats more than enough!
Putting yourself through unnecessary pain and mistreatmeant is a fine line between being a masoquist or a someone with way to much fvcking times in their hands dude....You realize that might be your problem to little worries ..to much time on your hands to come up with ways to actually mistreat yourself....Comeon atleast become a mentor or something...HElP SOCIETY but Dont tell me you are doing what you are doing to help you fight rejection, fear, intimidation..honestly it sounds like you are making excuses for yourself....."
 

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Re: HOW ABOUT THIS FOR A THEORy

Originally posted by tiburon
"FVCK MOST OF THEM ARE HOES,SLUTS, CHEAP PROSTITUTES, OR EXPENSIVE PROSTITUES.
Even though you have some major personal issues to deal with in life, I choose to stay away from any phukkyn flame wars, so I won't comment on them.. Not in the mood..:rolleyes:

However I will leave you with some advice:

1. You take this site too fukkyn seriously.
2. When you post, read what you've written, breathe, reread, breathe again and then proof-read your work. Then post..!! Even though we don't expect stellar vocabulary, your ideas come across a lot clearer, even if you are upset, when you pause and reread before posting.
Then you don't sound like Shaq after the Lakers lose a play-off game at the news conference.:confused:

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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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Anyway your definition of BoyToy sounds like this to me:

Flush all your self respect and dignity down the toilet for sex.

Its great that you like to experiment. Do you consider yourself to be some kind of scientist?
LOL!!

The first step in becoming a boytoy:

- Take a large pair of scissors, and carefully cut off your scrotum.
- Place your ballsack in a jar of vinegar, and when both balls are well pickled hand them to your favourite rich b*tch, so that she can hang them from the rearview mirror of her car.

Every time she looks in the mirror, she will be reminded just how much she OWNS you.
 

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you got one thin right!

yes i take the site seriously, and I am never pissed of when i write but i guess when its not a professional research i dont feel the need to sound smart, nor proofread anything but rather give honest valuable not bull**** advice. I have some artilces that i will be posting soon about some research i did and you can cirticize the spelling and everything else on those since those will be part of other important things and not only a post on a forum.


But yes i take many things in life seriously ....and giving good advice to people in this website is one such thing......Why am i like this ? Well you have to meet me to understand .........
 

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I'm not going to get in this tussle, but I will say that being a male slvt is all good and every DJ should atleast try it for a little bit. You DO get a different feel for women. Besides....older pvssy is all good in M.A.C.'s book!

M.A.C.
 

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Originally posted by Slickster
It seems weird to me. If you were as successful with women as you say, wouldn't you have more pVssy around than you knew what to do with? Why bother with the BoyToy thing?
I have never bragged about my conquests, and if I ever came across as one who bragged, I apologize. If you were to really analyze my posts, you would see that I am all for the bible and its teachings. All I do is thank sosuave for what it has done, in my life and post my new experiences accordingly.

Now people may not agree with the decisions that I have made as a result of reading, rereading and scripting my life with the teachings of the bible, but I live life trailblazing my own path. Who cares what people think of me. I do owe it to sosuave to post what results occur from being a serious student of the bible though!!!

The Edge ' Some have it, and some don't '
 

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I'm not sure where you resides but here in the ATL it is almost and everyday-issue on the evening news about a "new boyfriend" getting kill by the "original boyfriend/husband" who then kills himself.........leaving the woman to commit the same sh*t to someone else.(hush hush bullsh*t)

Your grown, so any repercussions to your decision will lie on your shoulders.

I just feel that most cats on the site put TOO MUCH EMPHASIS ON THE PVSSY in which a lot of males have died for.:(



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