"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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backbreaker

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okay, first, i'm going to just start this off by sayhing I am in fact tispy lol. yes at 9am.

secondly, I am quite peeved. I'm pretty hot actually.


Okay, some of you know that I am a huge college football fan in particular an arkansas razorback fan. Well for you non college fooball fans today is national signing day. today is the day all the high school seniors sign their letters of intent to play college football.

there is this one kid, that arknasas has been recruiting since he was in the 9th grad.e iN fact, he's considered to be the best player int he entire country regardless of position. Dorial Green-Beckham or "DGB". remember the nameou heard it here first. kid is a freak of nature. 6'6 225 pound WR that won the state 100 meter dash and has a 38 inch vertical. set the national record, national, for all time yards by a WR anywhere ever.

anyway, so we have been recruiting this kid forever. He's from Springfield mizzou, about 2 hours from the U of A. to make a very long story very short, he was an arknasa lean for a very long time. he actually told the coaches at arknasas that he was going to go to arknasas.. as late as yesterday evening. Arkansas coaches fully expected him to sign with arknasas.


so, the press conferences comes up, beucase the number 1 recruit in the contry just can't sign a sheet of paper, everyone has to cover it.. you even heard the guys at ESPNU whisper "it's arkansas" and he puts on a mizzou hat and signs with the tigers.

His dad, actually his step dad, in the backgroun had this "WTF" look in the background and didn't even clap.

turns out... Dorial has a new GF that's a mizzou fan and put the full court press on him. He thinks he is going to spend the rest of his life with this woman, and everyone is even thanking her for being a tiger fan on twitter lol.

I odn't so much care about... okay I do lol, but arknasas will be fine at WR regardless, we are loaded at WR regardless of waht he does.. but.. I mean.. to lose out to pvssy?

I mean, let's get real. this kid is going to major in football. He is going to play in the NfL. Arkansas is going to put 3 WR's in the NFL this year and has the best WR in the country per mel kiper for the 2013 NFL DRaft in Cobi Hamilton... we are WR U right now, arknasas runs the most pro style offense in the country, so he would know how to run NFL routes and be familar with NfL terminology.. arknasas would best prepare him for his feature. gives it all up to smash a broad. I don't get it. I mean, I get it, but I don't get it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Missouri's going to be the new whipping boy of the SEC, anyway. I wonder if that girlfriend will be with him through all the time his team sucks. Mizzou will stink as always, and he'll go to the nfl after a year, two at most.

DGB needs to spend time with Terrell Owens, so TO can tell him what it's like to pay child support to four different women. No one's talent is ever greater than their capacity to fvck it all up. I played against a kid in high school who set all the state records. They said he ran a 4.0 forty. Chasing him made me feel like I was running through a foot of water and he wasn't. He went to the #1 college in the country, couldn't get along with the coaches, then the #2 school happily took him, only to get the same result, and he dropped out, never going pro. No matter how good anyone is at anything, they can always fvck it up.
 

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He's a kid, he'll learn the hard way.

I know several of my friends growing up who did the same thing, pathetic.

Good buddy of mine wanted to get into a medical program in LA, he was all set on moving there etc etc; meets a girl 4 months before his planned move; guess what?

He moves 15 minutes away from where he was staying so he could live with her, after they were only dating for a couple months! Of course the girl was a whack job, totally left him high and dry and for the last 2 months of their relationship she slept in the other room of their 2 bedroom apartment. He was so attached to her, that it wasn't until I finally got through to him that he broke up with her!

Crazzzzy
 

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We all found this site and changed our lives because of women too.

I wonder which kind of life altering decisions we make because of women that make us pathetic (like those wasted talents) and which make us better men.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Warrior74

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Twice I've made life altering decisions because of a woman. I promised myself never again. Who ever told you love was about compromise lied.
 

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It really is sad when you see people's desperation for pvssy override their brains. Like others said, he is pretty young so hopefully he'll learn his lesson.

I wouldn't worry too much about it. A lot of these top recruits have egos the size of Texas and end up being big time busts (Terrell Pryor anyone?).
 

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It's been pretty well-documented that Green-Beckham's brother having cancer had a major impact on his decision to stay close to home. I'm not so sure this one should be totally lumped under the AFC idea.
 

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I dated a girl for 9 years, from age 17 - 26. There are MANY things I missed out on because of the relationship I was in. I won't enumerate them now, but I have a lot of regrets now because I passed on things that I wanted to do for the sake of the relationship.

Where is she now?

Fvck if I know.

This is going to be lesson #1 I pass on to my son: Don't let a woman steer your destiny.

Don't get my wrong, I'm quite happy with how things turned out, but I do spend a lot of time thinking about how different my life would have been if I perused the things I wanted. Yet another reason to blaze your own trail.
 

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My ex wife wanted me to give up my established practice and move to another town... near her daughter. I wouldn't do it...2 years later her daughter moved back here. I would have lost the business I grew on the whims of a woman.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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My drug addiction was caused, soley by one woman who I let me talk into it (while sitting in my bed butt naked with the promise / implication of hours of great sex) About at least $50,000 later and thousands of hours of AA and NA meetings later, i should have just jacked off
 
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