"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Life After High School

HandyAndy

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I dont want high school to end! I have 2 more years to go and I know im going to miss every bit of it, even if I hate waking up early, homework, tests, stupid teachers, etc. Its so easy in HS because the girls are already there, everyday! I hate to think about how real life is going to be so hard, Im going to miss all the attention I get from girls and I know someday I will never see them again! Which is why I want to try so hard to talk to all girls im interested in, but I dont put in any effort.

Im trying to enjoy every second of HS life because one day it will unfortunately be over :( NOooooooo!!!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Five To One

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For real man.
Im a senior this year which will be awesome but I always get depressed when I sit down and think that iv got only a year left.

Its all gone too fast.
 

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Make sure you enjoy every minute of it. I just graduated and I already miss it. Yeah being in class sucked, but now I'm realizing that I'm not gonna be seeing many of my friends ever again. Life is so easy in high school. You don't have any responsibilities and you don't have to worry about anything at the time. Once it's over, it hits you hard. It hit me pretty hard. Just remember to enjoy it while you have it coz life is way different once you're out!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Colin O'Brien

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trust me college aint too shabby.. I've been realizing how lame high school was, how fake the people are, how retarded the social structure is. You gotta find the right people and find the right niche to make the most of it... I only found the niche.
 

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Don't worry about it man. Hell, everyone I know can't wait to get out of highschool. Live it up though because it is a different time. Sure, there's college (which is great BTW), but HS just has something different about it that makes it special. Most people think you'll never see your friends again, but fear not. Truthfully, after graduation you'll find out who your real friends are as you and them will make the effort to keep in touch.

Really, LIFE didn't hit me until after I graduated college. I was on a full scholarship and actually making money by going to college, so it was a non-stop party/vacation. Having to get a job to pay bills hit me hard as it was something I hadn't had to do my whole life. After college I started to lose track of real friends whether they moved, got married, or whatever, and that was rough. The worst was perhaps realizing that very close friends and I had grown apart. Now we're still friends, just not the way we used to be and it's one of those things we can't go back to.

Yeah, like any other major transition things will be a little hard. Honestly though, I don't regret a moment of any of it. Not only do I have lifelong memories, but the experiences made me the person (who I'm VERY happy with) today. So keep you're head up, it'll all be alright trust me
 

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Andy mate, DON'T worry!! IMO, college is way better. I've made the best mates of my life in university, I fvcking love it. Just wait and see bro :D
 

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Opposite of the way I saw leaving a year ago, I hated High School, it was such a joy to escape!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The Bat

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To quote Family Guy,

"High school is such a serious thing...!"

Real world is challenging, cold, and harsh...sure. BUT you become a Man in the real world, and not in HS or college. You learn to deal with problems and challenges everyday in real world. And this includes women.

Life after high school and college means total freedom and independence to mold yourself into the Man that you want to become. Don't get me wrong, high school wasn't all that bad. It was tons of fun but 4 years is enough. You are only half way through, so you'll know what I'm talking about when you graduate.

And remember that leaving something behind like high school of 4 years will demand that you reflect on what happened. And it might depress you a bit at first with, "Oh crap, I can't believe it's over..." But trust me, once you start college and soon real world, you will be glad that it was over that soon.
 
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I CAN'T WAIT to get out of High school, take some time off, and then start university. I can't wait to have total control over my life, to get away from all the d!ckheads, to not have to get up when it's still dark every morning, etc. It's gonna be awesome. Only one more year to go after this one.

I know I'll lose contact with a lot of people. But I won't with the ones that really matter.
 

War Against Betaism

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I graduated in 07 and took a year off of college (partially because of this stupid rule where immigrants like me have to pay $200 per unit just for community college), but I've realized A LOT of things after high school. High school has this structure where it almost forces you to meet people and it allows you to see the same people everyday, which easily allows you to make friends. College is much different because it's vastly bigger and you're most likely not going to know anyone in any of your classes. The social dynamics in college is more free flowing that it truly tests your social skills. High school makes it easy to meet people, college you have to meet people yourself.
 

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If you are still in highschool MAKE THE FCKING MOST OF IT!!!!

If you are in college MAKE THE FCKING MOST OF IT!!!!

If you are in the 'real world' MAKE THE FCKING MOST OF IT!!!!

Nothing else matters. Although this thread is good motivation for me to amke the most of what I have left of HS!
 

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i have just finished high school and, even that my school is quite small i can say that i enjoyed a lot. there was few girls to "eat" and i wasn't even close to be some kind of DJ (im on a "changing" process right now). But i can say that i loved all the parties and friends and the fact that on my school i was quite popular. enjoy while you can so that when you graduate you can say that "i made it all to enjoy the most" and then you will feel ok.

now let's see how college work ;)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Yea I'm gonna miss HS too. Only one year has passed for me and I already missed it.
I only got two more years left :cry:

Well, if you guys were to relive your HS years, what would be some things you would change? (study harder to get a better job, talking to more people etc. etc.)

Let the rest of us young guys learn from your mistakes. We need some guidance.


I for one need to get my grades up. I've been slacking too much in school :down:
I'm going to step it up this year, get +85% in all subjects! :D
 

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if i returned to HS i would:
-Get more chicks
-Talk to even more people (i have problems to start a conversation with someone i don't know)

just that. my grades are good, not an A student but it's enough to go college and choose what i want.
 

War Against Betaism

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If I could go back to high school I would have definitely tried to associate with more people. I moved to the city where I live from Canada like 3 years ago near the beginning of my junior year. I hated that year so much because I had no friends and had thoughts of suicide. I just hate being alone, worst feeling in the world. Things were better in senior year, I started hanging out with people out of my city, though I was still very bitter and really never made the effort to meet people. Now I really regret it and wish I could go back and change that.
 

i am me

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SinJester said:
If you are still in highschool MAKE THE FCKING MOST OF IT!!!!

If you are in college MAKE THE FCKING MOST OF IT!!!!

If you are in the 'real world' MAKE THE FCKING MOST OF IT!!!!

Nothing else matters. Although this thread is good motivation for me to amke the most of what I have left of HS!
what this dude said

i loved high school and i DO miss just goin to school everyday, chillin with my buddies, talkin to girls...and iono about u guys but that high school drama stuff was actually pretty entertaining to me lol. its different in college and the real world, i wont lie...but that doesnt make it worse. youll have as much fun and probably even more in college. my high school days are some of my fondest memories but u gotta keep moving forward
 

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The thing I have noticed now that high school is over (I graduated this year) is that a lot of the so called 'popular kids' seem to have problems moving on. It is August now and they are still posting up pics on facebook from grad parties etc.

If I could do high school over again, I would have started partying before the summer between junior/senior year. That being said I would have also been much more careful about my partying, e.g. not driving drunk on a few occasions. That was a bad idea.

Unlike most people I'm not going to college this upcoming year, I'm going to bootcamp soon, which will force me to become a man and go into the real world rather than living off my parents for four more years. Enlisting during the first semester my senior year really made that second semester of my senior year stress free, since I didn't need to worry about getting into college, but I was still able to graduate with honors.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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