ositosucio2 said:
thanks. Yeah I have had prettier women before. And younger ( 19, and 22 after the divorce ) but I am just taking it easy and see what comes my way... accepting all applications lol
lol funny you say that. Same here. We tolerate each other but we dont really get along. He is always criticizing everything and everybody and just plain toxic to be around. Plus very arrogant and condescending. We make an effort to do **** together and get along fine in groups but when we go anywhere by ourselves.... 50/50 chance a fight will come lol... it is sad and pathetic.
is one of you left handed and the other right handed by any chace.
Sorry about derailing the subject of the thread hehe
No we are both right handed, though I do play hockey lefthanded.
Sorry to hear about your bro. I wonder if the fact we are twins has anything to do with it. It really is a different dynamic.
Sorry to derail this thread as well, but this is a good time to get this off of my chest. I never really talk about my personal life on here and maybe it is time I do.
My brother has really become toxic to me, to the point where I don't even talk to him any longer and am considering a lawsuit.
It all started about 6 years ago. He and I both stopped training race horses together and ever since its been all downhill. He has never gotten another job since. He just lives off his wife, freeloading. Refuses to work. And guess what? He cheats on her too, though she has cheated on him as well in all fairness. Anyway, over the years I have loaned him and his wife quite a bit of money. Thousands in fact. He has paid back a few hundred, but has not made a payment in at least 4 years. I ask and ask, and he has a million and one excuses why he cant pay. Meanwhile he gambles and goes to the bar and a million other things. We used to live near each other in the same state, but I have since moved to CA and started a career out here, trading stocks and working for a medical company.
He actually started borrowing money by stealing from me. I had a IRS refund check due and he had moved into my old condo after I moved to CA, so he was getting any mail that would come. Well, he forged my signature, cashed the check, and then never told me about it. I was going through all kinds of calls with the IRS before I finally figured out what he did. I have since loaned him much more as I said. You would think that someone who owes me like this, while not paying me back, would at least be supportive of me right? But no. One of my things I do is trade stocks, and in doing so the stock message boards play a large role in how some of these stocks trade. They are penny stocks btw. So I had over $100,000 invested in this one company, and two years ago, without fail, he would get on the message boards every day and bash the hell out of it. I mean just rip it to shreds. He had no reason to. He didnt own it. He just did it because I had that much into it and he was jealous. It caused me a lot of grief and to my family as well. So that went on for over a year and we kept our distance. I never visited him back home, and I would rarely have any contact with him at all in fact. That didnt stop him from bad mouthing me to our family and friends though. Telling them I had changed and money was corrupting me. Meanwhile I was the one supporting his broke ass.
So this past July, he emails me telling me he got into a huge fight with his wife over all the cheating they have done, and he wants to drive up north to our family cottage for July 4 but he cant because he has no money to get up there. So like a sucker, I drive to his local bank branch here in CA and put some money into his account so he can go. I should have known better because what he did next was even worse than before.
As part of my job out here, I have spent the better part of a year and a half working on a personal health records system for race horses to eliminate illegal drug use on the race horse. It is an untapped market and worth many many millions, and the company I work for can fill the need for this product perfectly. It is my idea, my product, my project. I have put so much effort into it and it is just now starting to gain traction. So last week, out of the blue and for no reason whatsoever, he goes on the particular stock board for this company, that the ceo and all of the other company insiders read, and starts to bash the hell out of not only the company, but also my race horse project. I mean again, he rips it to shreds. And he knows the ceo reads that board and he knows the effort I put into this. Today in fact this company released a PR about this horse project, and again he got on the message boards and ripped it. This is my own brother. He owes me thousands. And he is doing this. At the very least he should say nothing, and at best he should get on there and write some words of support. I mean would you go on a message board that your brothers boss reads and talk about what a terrible employee your bro is or how he rips off the company? Of course not.
What was even worse is wife. Throughout all the cheating between those two, I have never judged her and always was there to talk to her. In fact over July 4 I talked to her for 2-3 hours about her and my brother, offering my support. So when this happened last week, I texted her to try and talk to her about all of this. Her reaction? To tell my brother to tell me that not only should I lose her number, but she also defriended me AND my girlfriend off of facebook lol. I mean it was bizarre. Who does that? My gf/fiance is the nicest person in the world and never says a bad word about anyone. Especially them. Then she went on to say how she doesn't care about what he says about me or does to me, how I scam people, etc etc. I was blown away. We hadnt even talked since I talked to her over July 4 and here she was saying all of this? This is the same girl who when I sold a car 5 years ago handed her $750 cash so she could pay rent and who has paid back $50 since. So even though my bro and her cheat on each other left and right and argue all the time, he has obviously poisoned her to where she is now saying the same things he is. It is really a strange thing. In fact I would say she was even nicer to him AFTER HE TOLD HER HE CHEATED. That is right, he told her, just to rub it in her face.
Anyway, I am now going to have to sue them both to try and get my money back, it has caused a huge family crisis, and the point is, NONE of this had to happen. He did all of this out of nowhere, for no other reason than I can only guess is jealousy and his own pitiful excuse for a life.
, about two inches taller, and weight about 30 more pounds because I lift 5 times a week.