life after divorce...

[ositosucio]

I dont post much but just wanted to let all of you know that things do get better after a break up.

After a 7 year marriage and infidelity from her part I have now mostly put everything behind me. Always have been aware of game and applied it with the ex wife and in all my previous LTR and flings but sometimes thing do happen and it is all about how you react to them.

Women come and go and they are NOT supposed to be the center of your world . Only then you will become the center of theirs.

Here is a pic of my and my brother with our current gfs.

I will never get married again.

http://www.casinoartist.com/club50.jpg

 

[soulforge]

I dont post much but just wanted to let all of you know that things do get better after a break up.

After a 7 year marriage and infidelity from her part I have now mostly put everything behind me. Always have been aware of game and applied it with the ex wife and in all my previous LTR and flings but sometimes thing do happen and it is all about how you react to them.

Women come and go and they are NOT supposed to be the center of your world . Only then you will become the center of theirs.

Here is a pic of my and my brother with our current gfs.

I will never get married again.

http://www.casinoartist.com/club50.jpg

hey man, i find your story somewhat encouraging... have just dumped my girl, after 2 years... as she was very toxic... and with strong possibility of cheating at some point

anyhow, it's good to know you have moved on... gives me some hope!

 

[ositosucio]

hey man, i find your story somewhat encouraging... have just dumped my girl, after 2 years... as she was very toxic... and with strong possibility of cheating at some point

anyhow, it's good to know you have moved on... gives me some hope!

You did the right thing.

It will be a bit rough the first weeks but if you keep yourself occupied it will pass. Too many girls out there and like your precious doll, there are hundreds of them out there.

I am 35. I dont know how old you are but I am at a point in my life where I wont take **** from anybody , specially a woman. It helps I live in Miami though. I have no history with american women. They are hard to find down here, not that I would be looking anyways hehhe.

Hit the gy, go out with friends, travel. Chasing women should not be a priority after a break up. YOu be a better version of yourself everyday. Focus on you and women will flock to you.

 

[ositosucio]

if you are into traveling a trip to Medellin , Colombia, or Cordoba, Argentina will wake you up.

The quality of women in the US is very very low. Make the world your oyster. Get in shape, follow your passion/dream and leave your mark. Women are things that will come and go during your journey.

 

[skinnyguy]

I'm thinking about going to Costa Rica end of October...are the women good there? Not pretentious?

 

[soulforge]

You did the right thing.

It will be a bit rough the first weeks but if you keep yourself occupied it will pass. Too many girls out there and like your precious doll, there are hundreds of them out there.

I am 35. I dont know how old you are but I am at a point in my life where I wont take **** from anybody , specially a woman. It helps I live in Miami though. I have no history with american women. They are hard to find down here, not that I would be looking anyways hehhe.

Hit the gy, go out with friends, travel. Chasing women should not be a priority after a break up. YOu be a better version of yourself everyday. Focus on you and women will flock to you.

thanx my friend, that is what i intend to do... hit the gym , focus on career, then woman will come later..

the one thing i have learned from this relationship is... i will never take sh@t off anyone again... especially woman

in some ways i am thankful for this experience, as it will better me as a person & have learned to stay clear of toxic troublesome woman, no matter how hot they are

i don't see the point in gaming woman like these in order to keep them, because deep inside they are trash & at some point they will bring you down

i feel some sorrow, but the reality is, this woman was no good for me, from day one, and would never had made me happy

so good riddance

 

[ositosucio]

I'm thinking about going to Costa Rica end of October...are the women good there? Not pretentious?

been there. Not very high quality in looks but passable. I suggest Cuba. I am originally from there and we have the most beautiful girls in Latin America, on par with Argentina and Colombia ( see picture on original post ). And they like to ****, plus, being a foreigner you will be a rock star wherever you go.

Salon Rojo Capri
El Turquino
Johnny
La Casa de la Musica

These are my favorite places in Havana. OF course, if you are a natural us citizen you cant go unless a cuban buddy goes with you. hehehe I should organize an expedition of gringos to Havana.

 

[ositosucio]

thanx my friend, that is what i intend to do... hit the gym , focus on career, then woman will come later..

the one thing i have learned from this relationship is... i will never take sh@t off anyone again... especially woman

in some ways i am thankful for this experience, as it will better me as a person & have learned to stay clear of toxic troublesome woman, no matter how hot they are

i don't see the point in gaming woman like these in order to keep them, because deep inside they are trash & at some point they will bring you down

i feel some sorrow, but the reality is, this woman was no good for me, from day one, and would never had made me happy

so good riddance

youll miss her and fell bad for a few weeks. Make sure you dont stay home and do all those things. Get out of your comfort zone. The brain works in mysterious ways. We sob for the lost one while there are literally thousands out there. And you got her in the first place, using exactly the same attributes you will get many many more.

 

[expos]

I dont post much but just wanted to let all of you know that things do get better after a break up.

After a 7 year marriage and infidelity from her part I have now mostly put everything behind me. Always have been aware of game and applied it with the ex wife and in all my previous LTR and flings but sometimes thing do happen and it is all about how you react to them.

Women come and go and they are NOT supposed to be the center of your world . Only then you will become the center of theirs.

Here is a pic of my and my brother with our current gfs.

I will never get married again.

http://www.casinoartist.com/club50.jpg

Can you explain why she cheated? How she cheated? What is the story here? Did you ever confront the guy who got with her?

BTW the girl on the far right side is totally my type.

 

[ositosucio]

Can you explain why she cheated? How she cheated? What is the story here? Did you ever confront the guy who got with her?

BTW the girl on the far right side is totally my type.

she cheated because I overgamed her. I was taking trips overseas alone to bang other girls, cheating in my city ( she never found out about any of my cheating ) . But she could feel me getting detached. I took her for granted and she broke at the weakest link: her boss at work.

Coached by her slutty friends she started to change, go home late ( mind you, at this time I had thrown the towel and wanted to become a perfect husband and have kids ).

I saw the red flags and took a closer look. She indeed cheated with a much older, married, ugly as ****, womenizer guy with kids

Basically she cheated with a future version of myself the way I was behaving ( except the ugly part ).

Needless to say at that point it was over.

I now know she is desperate chasing after 40s and 50 + year olds with money trying to land the infamous "rich beta" before her beauty fades more. She is 31.

It is all sad because I know her and she is behaving this way mainly because of the whole brainwashing her ***** friends have done.

I dont want her back but it is sad to see somebody I care about become so shallow and naive.

 

[ositosucio]

Can you explain why she cheated? How she cheated? What is the story here? Did you ever confront the guy who got with her?

BTW the girl on the far right side is totally my type.

no, i didnt confront the guy. It was her fault, not his. I saw them with my own eyes, I was standing 1 feet from both of them. I simply turned around and got a lawyer the next day.

 

[expos]

she cheated because I overgamed her. I was taking trips overseas alone to bang other girls, cheating in my city ( she never found out about any of my cheating ) .

I dont want her back but it is sad to see somebody I care about become so shallow and naive.

You didn't care about her. Man, be honest. If you cared about her you would want her back. You should take a bullet for someone you love, could you do that for her?

Not to be a prick, but that's karma. Cheating is never justified....but she was basically justified in her cheating. But she's also proven to be a gold digger. Gold diggers should be cut loose.

 

[ositosucio]

You didn't care about her. Man, be honest. If you cared about her you would want her back. You should take a bullet for someone you love, could you do that for her?

Not to be a prick, but that's karma. Cheating is never justified....but she was basically justified in her cheating. But she's also proven to be a gold digger. Gold diggers should be cut loose.

exactly. I didnt explain the details well enough. I was willing to forgive her at that time when I found out about the boss, taking into consideration that I had done much worse things.

She refused to go back home and quit her job. She said she needed time and space. I know exactly what that means. I offered her a house, a 7k diamond ring, a family, marriage counseling and to be a perfect husband. Her response? I need more time and I will keep working with my boss, the same guy you saw put his hands all over me.


Before her goldigging whor e friends could pull her in deeper into their kingdom of entitled ****s I got a lawyer and got the divorce signed. It was a matter of time before her friends would tell her to rape me good in court. I have to give that to her. She took nothing.

I have to mention here that during the 7 years of marriage she never paid any of the household bills. NONE. So even though she didnt take anything she saved a mountain of money by not having a single bill to pay for years.


This all happened about 5 months ago and She has gone through her fifth old rich guy. I thought goldiggers had to be born. Now I know people change and are transformed by peer pressure. Very sad that she acts this way now.


Las time I spoke to her she called insulted that I wanted to take her out of our car insurance policy. Her words: " why cant you keep paying for my insurance???? I have frriends that are divorced and their exes pay all their bills!! ) hehehehh...women..

 

[Syrio]

I'm thinking about going to Costa Rica end of October...are the women good there? Not pretentious?

I spent a couple months in Costa Rica a few years ago... the people there are super nice and fun to hang out with but the women weren't particularly good looking. There were some hot tourists but I didn't find most of the Costa Rican women to be very attractive.

 

[cordoncordon]

She may not have known who you were specifically cheating with, but trust me she 'knew' you were cheating. They always do. So I really cannot blame her a bit for doing what she did. You really do give marriage a bad name with that kind of behavior, so I don't think marriage will miss you if you choose not to get married again.

That being said, it sounds as if you know what you want now, so good on your for that. Good luck.

Just being curious, but which one are you in the pic? And how is it you have 3 "gf's" with only two guys? Nice. How do the girls feel about that? Though to be honest, none of the girls are really hot at all. You can do better.

Great job though.

 

[SteR]

So just to clarify: You were cheating multiple times on your wife and you got pissed when she cheated once and got a divorce?

Not to be judgemental but it sounds like you're the one who's created all this trouble for yourself...

 

[ositosucio]

So just to clarify: You were cheating multiple times on your wife and you got pissed when she cheated once and got a divorce?

Not to be judgemental but it sounds like you're the one who's created all this trouble for yourself...

wrong. My fault was not being around more. One lay here and there with no strings attached mean nothing to me. I loved her. and that never changed.

Remember, I gave her another shot. She didnt take it.

 

[ositosucio]

She may not have known who you were specifically cheating with, but trust me she 'knew' you were cheating. They always do. So I really cannot blame her a bit for doing what she did. You really do give marriage a bad name with that kind of behavior, so I don't think marriage will miss you if you choose not to get married again.



That being said, it sounds as if you know what you want now, so good on your for that. Good luck.

Just being curious, but which one are you in the pic? And how is it you have 3 "gf's" with only two guys? Nice. How do the girls feel about that? Though to be honest, none of the girls are really hot at all. You can do better.

Great job though.

I am on the left

yeah, I was never ready for marriage when I did it. I was 26. I tried really hard for the first 5 years but it was too difficult not to have lived my 20s the way I wanted.

Guys, DO NOT MARRY YOUNG. You and your wife will be sorry later.
thanks.
that pic really has bad lighting.

Here is a better pic of each:

http://www.casinoartist.com/claudia.jpg

http://www.casinoartist.com/ana.jpg

 

[corrector]

wrong. My fault was not being around more. One lay here and there with no strings attached mean nothing to me. I loved her. and that never changed.

Remember, I gave her another shot. She didnt take it.

You mean you loved yourself. I mean, did you even get tested after these encounters? You either contracted or put yourself at risk for STDs, HIV, etc... and could have passed that to your wife. Not to mention the fact that your wife wasn't good enough for you to satisfy you so you had to dip here and there.

You went after the lowest quality of women that only desperate single guy should go to if they couldn't get laid to save their life or get a woman, yet you had a wife and a supply of sex. You just sound like a greedy person. People have little sympathy if you ruined a good marriage like that. How can you really say you love her when you killed the only thing that could prove it -- loyalty?

I suppose if you wife talked to another guy, or hugged another guy in a manner that shows she's into him then that, in your logic, would be far worst than all the cheating you did, even if she never had any sex? You know why? Because her attention is on the other guy not on you and that rips you apart. When a woman shares her heart with someone else, even if there is no sex, it feels worst than if a guy has a casual lay with little or no emotional connection. Is this what you are trying to say here?

 

[cordoncordon]

I am on the left

yeah, I was never ready for marriage when I did it. I was 26. I tried really hard for the first 5 years but it was too difficult not to have lived my 20s the way I wanted.

Guys, DO NOT MARRY YOUNG. You and your wife will be sorry later.
thanks.
that pic really has bad lighting.

Here is a better pic of each:

http://www.casinoartist.com/claudia.jpg

http://www.casinoartist.com/ana.jpg

Ahhh those are better pics. You are on the left? You are the better looking brother. I only say that because I have a twin bro and I always say I am the better looking one.....haha but you really are. You have some nice facial aesthetics and your body looks in great shape (no homo). We actually have very similar builds.

As for your gf....I know nothing of her personality so hard for me to say there, and as long as you care for her and get along well that is really all that matters. But you are for sure better looking than her. She is still pretty though. She has that manly look that some women bodybuilders tend to get. I see it all the time at the gym. My gf lifts 5 days a week with me, but never super heavy and no roids.