"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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mvp21

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well i have been workin this hb8 at my work for about a week i alrerady # closed lots of cf an kino an was gettin ready to go on a date an suddenly i caught her in a lie i mean she lied right to my face. i dont wont to overreact to it but then again now that i know she will lie how can i trust her anymore?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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LikRetsam

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You don't. She's done and nexted.

She does not respect you.

Unfortunately, she may have ruined a good thing. Fortunately, you won't waste any time on her.

But don't settle on this chick. Please.
 

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You don't trust her, again; and now you know why you should take everything you hear with a grain of salt.

People lie. Period.

People will lie, and push you down to successfully complete a personal agenda. F*ck them. F*ck her.

Do not take that sh!t from anyone... understood?
 
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