LIES... LIES... LIES she tells them

[DonGorgon]

Well hmm.. so she loves you and wants you and Fs you... but.. she lies about things and have elaborate crazy stories to explain things that dont make sense..

That is the reality of females. Wether we want to face it or not its true.. 9 times out of 10 they have a couple other dudes in addition to you .. no matter how great your relationship is..

Ok so we say we wont worry or care about those things she lies about but the problem is that in a relationship you are investing time money and emotions.. I have a hard time being in a relationship and acting single but that is what we men have to do cause our girl is being chased and seduced constantly by many men... She will F some of them for what ever reason... and may or may not let you know.

I hate being single and i hate being in a relationship.. the only solution is to cheat like 99% of humans. But for men cheating takes work cause now you have to go through all the bs associated with pursuing women but at the same time keep your relationship working and hide your cheating.

My problem is that as i get older i have less energy and desire to play the games and i am becoming more emotionally vulnerable. but i know emotions make you weak so I surpress my desire for true love etc. but i hate that i have to do that....

22 year old HB8...lol i know thats asking for trouble... im expecting too much cause she tries to convince me that she is different but we all know females are only as different she you let that fool you into believing...

She lies so much that its silly and dont dare let her know you know she is lying cause thats a violation of her access rule she wil simple leave once she can no longer keep the upper hand by lying.. I know I know i have to do cost vs benefit ... is the cost of dealing with her bs worth the good things about her..??? maybe i guess .. or maybe not. its like when she is with me she is soo sweat but as soon as she leaves you just know she have other men but she keeps it all so well hidden in her house of lies..

She always says stuff is missing .. her glasses her clothes etc.. but in know she leaves these things at people places cause she leaves stuff at my place and it funny cause wen she leaves something at my place she knows but when its somewhere else she says it lost which means she cant tell me where she left it...

 

[piranha45]

so the solution is to stop caring about what other men your women sleep with?

 

[DonGorgon]

so the solution is to stop caring about what other men your women sleep with?

that and go sleep with other women.. but then its impossible to have a real relationship.. what's the point? Im starting not to give a damn about her at all... but i guess thats the emotional drama she is craving..

 

[Trader]

All girls lie - but some girls lie less and actually have some *sense* of propriety

For you to say: 'All girls lie and I can't get into a long-term relationship with any of them' is analogous to the bitter feminist who says: 'All men are dogs.'

You get what you ARE. If you want to attract girls of higher character, then try working on your own character.

 

[STR8UP]

that and go sleep with other women.. but then its impossible to have a real relationship.. what's the point? Im starting not to give a damn about her at all... but i guess thats the emotional drama she is craving..

It IS nearly impossible to have a "real" relationship, or at least the idealized, romanticized version that we are sold as being the standard to strive for.

 

[Aenigma]

You should rename this thrread to: Reasons to get a paternity test 100% of the time.

 

[DonGorgon]

You should rename this thrread to: Reasons to get a paternity test 100% of the time.

yup soo true

 

[The Logical Player]

it is not difficult to maintain multiple relationships and cheat all the time.

Just make sure to always keep everything you do private.

 

[DonGorgon]

it is not difficult to maintain multiple relationships and cheat all the time.

Just make sure to always keep everything you do private.

I know its not hard its just than its extra work I wish i could just relax and feel comfortable in a relationship[ but human nature does not allow that.. Im 99% sure she has dudes on the side even though we just started seeing each other,

 

[jophil28]

. Im 99% sure she has dudes on the side even though we just started seeing each other,

Firstly, you need to be clear about what behaviors in her ( and women in general ) are acceptable to you, and what are not GOING IN.
IF you are not OK with her f*cking other men while you are dating her, then having these suspicions will eat you up.
A lot of women will NOT date or f*ck other men while sleeping with her 'A' guy, and many will NOT lie to you, but some will.
You need to find some evidence to support or dispel your fears and doubts.
Condemning a woman on a hunch or on some vague "gut instinct" is not the way to do this.
However if she has already lied to you about other matters, then asking her about her other male "friends" is hardly likely to reveal the truth. She will readily lie to you about those other guys. Liars tell lies and cheaters cheat - usually compulsively.

 

[mrRuckus]

I hate being single and i hate being in a relationship.. the only solution is to cheat like 99% of humans.

I hate not having a ferrari but i've learned to accept it.

 

[DonGorgon]

Firstly, you need to be clear about what behaviors in her ( and women in general ) are acceptable to you, and what are not GOING IN.
IF you are not OK with her f*cking other men while you are dating her, then having these suspicions will eat you up.
A lot of women will NOT date or f*ck other men while sleeping with her 'A' guy, and many will NOT lie to you, but some will.
You need to find some evidence to support or dispel your fears and doubts.
Condemning a woman on a hunch or on some vague "gut instinct" is not the way to do this.
However if she has already lied to you about other matters, then asking her about her other male "friends" is hardly likely to reveal the truth. She will readily lie to you about those other guys. Liars tell lies and cheaters cheat - usually compulsively.

yeh true..

 

[Deep Dish]

I hate being single and i hate being in a relationship.. the only solution is to cheat like 99% of humans.

"One is the loneliest number. That you'll ever do. Two can be as bad as one. It's the loneliest number since the number one." -- Amy Mann

You, obviously, are not comfortable in your own skin.

 

[NewMan]

You issue is the women you select.

what is the definition of insanity? - doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result.

Your results are the same - then you need to look at where your meeting these women and what your selection process is.

Do women lie and cheat? yes - but not all women cheat.

adjust your selection process - and further, stop excepting this behaviour from the woman your with.

 

[DonGorgon]

Well update.. She dumped me to go back to her abusive X boyfriend whom she never broke up with at all..

She was trying to branch swing to me but I refused to tell her i loved hire or let her move in to my place. So she left me a voice mail saying that she has decided to go back to the guy who beat her up many times.

cant say im surprised..

Oh well back to the game...lol