"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

LIE to get LAID

saber

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 4, 2007
Messages
360
Reaction score
3
Does anyone here do it?
What are your opinions or moral objections toward the subject?

Basically I am trying to justify it to myself and would appreciate some thoughts in general.

I know someone who lies his ass off to hook up with girls and I have always been mostly honest with a white lie here or there.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

Mad Manic

Banned
Joined
Aug 11, 2007
Messages
1,038
Reaction score
7
Location
Leeds, UK
saber said:
Does anyone here do it?
What are your opinions or moral objections toward the subject?

Basically I am trying to justify it to myself and would appreciate some thoughts in general.

I know someone who lies his ass off to hook up with girls and I have always been mostly honest with a white lie here or there.
Yes do it, there are lots of honest guys who don't get laid.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

Joined
May 23, 2006
Messages
2,434
Reaction score
11
Master Bates said:
take your jesus talk outside.
Got a problem? Anybody that wants to seek justification for any garbage is likely going to get it from this board - which sort of defeats the purpose of getting answers that matter. There is no possible justification for lying or having pre-maritial sex, since sin begets sin, obviously, lying is going to be a by-product and inevitable since you are dealing with darkness.
 

DavenJuan

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 22, 2003
Messages
792
Reaction score
32
Location
mistake by the lake
WHATEVER IT TAKES! lol...the whole idae is to become a better person, and lying would only complicate things if your looking for more than just a bang bang
 

WaterTiger

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 3, 2003
Messages
1,717
Reaction score
35
Location
Wine Country, Ca
Like Dav22 asked:"What do you have to lie about?"

You have to lie about what...being rich? Having a great car? Having a great job? Having a huge dik? What?

Or the nasty lies, like how much you care for her, how you see a future? I mean really, is that what an Alpha male has to do to get laid? Or does that sound more like a weak, pathetic AFC, desperate for some sex?

Justify it as you see fit.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

potato

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 15, 2007
Messages
474
Reaction score
17
Depends on what you want. If you want to keep the girl around, lying will come back to bite you in the butt.

I’m always very honest with women, and really everyone, except maybe authority figures. All the women I get involved with tend to think highly of me and always being honest with them is part of that.
 

Rex Man

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 18, 2005
Messages
613
Reaction score
2
Location
Midwest
I would suggest being truthful. Once you start lying to multiple women, it becomes difficult to remember. Also, if you say what you have to say with confidence, it wont matter as much as you think.

Rex: Me? I'mma virgin.

HB: (giggle) really?

Rex: Yeah......so?
 

ABC

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 28, 2007
Messages
12
Reaction score
1
WaterChick you don't know anything. You don't have to lie about big cars or being rich. You have to lie about a million little things. Can I keep my lies straight? No. But I only use them when the truth would hurt me or not help me. So if I get caught I'm in the same boat as I would have been if I told the truth in the first place EXCEPT -- you guessed it -- I've got another lie warming up in the dugout.
 

Dilberto

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 21, 2007
Messages
221
Reaction score
2
Lie ONLY to get laid. Just remember though- if any of those encounters lead to a potential relationship......you are screwed. There is nothing worse than having a woman catch you in any-sized lie. Might as well dunk your head in a pool of acid. Not to mention the 14 additional lies you have to make.....just to support the first one! Take it from a former pathological liar. In my younger days, I lied about everything. My biggest mistake was turning those one, two-night stands, into relationships. I was a convincing liar. I talked the talk, looked the look, and made sure I appeared to be exactly who I was fooling. I became the fool when I got tired of ad-libbing explanations for all my fibs, to these fine women. It just compounds. Having a great memory makes absolutely NO DIFFERENCE, either. Our lies will always sink us. Better to tell the unexciting truth, than to wow them with an incredible lie. When you get a reputation from women, you are a croc-o-sh*t.......you are better off moving to a different location......serious!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

DavenJuan

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 22, 2003
Messages
792
Reaction score
32
Location
mistake by the lake
i had a buddy who lied about his age and his profession. he is was a pornstar. he ended up getting serious with this girl and she found out like 2 yrs later. even though he didnt do it anymore, there relationship was done. ..the question is...would there have been a relationship in the first place had she known?

he was heartbroken for awhile even though he didnt admit it we all knew. he probably wouldve been better off saving himself the heartache
 

kdnash82

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 5, 2006
Messages
530
Reaction score
8
Location
A land near you
DavenJuan said:
i had a buddy who lied about his age and his profession. he is was a pornstar.
I really need to change my profession. I need to come up with some kind of gimmick though. Like blowing my load multiple times in a matter of 5 minutes and with that, each time I blow have it shoot across the room. Maybe even have a target placed on the far side of the room.

What do you guys think? People would buy that right?
 

babsan

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 23, 2006
Messages
40
Reaction score
0
I agree with skywalker. I thought this forum is about being a Don Juan. Lying and deceiving isn't what a Don Juan should a ever need to do. Just develop your life, so so you can truly be enthusiastic about it. A lie always comes back at ya.
 

Canibus27

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 22, 2005
Messages
101
Reaction score
0
babsan said:
I agree with skywalker. I thought this forum is about being a Don Juan. Lying and deceiving isn't what a Don Juan should a ever need to do. Just develop your life, so so you can truly be enthusiastic about it. A lie always comes back at ya.
And this forum also isn't about spreading the word of Jesus.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

Top