"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Liberate yourself!

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After watching fight club (if you havent seen fight club, see it. now.), I've been pondering etc. And I've decided to liberate myself of some **** that I don't need.

For instance, I was just talkin to some guy from here and the subject went to porn...

Well, to make a long boring convo short: I just permanently deleted 17.2 gigs of porno that I had compiled over the years.

After pondering a bit, I realized that there was absolutely nothing good that I was getting from it. In fact, it only was a temptation for masturbation, and I don't need that ****. In terms of redeeming value, it was nothing but a corrupting influence and a cheap way to cheat myself. Using one of the philosophies of fight club, I freed myself of something, a smaller degree of how the narrator freed himself of the possessions that were cluttering his life.

So free yourselves today and now (no hesitation), get rid of something that's dragging you down, some dumb habit, whatever. It doesn't have to be porn, even though that's a good start.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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tottaly agree, just deleted all my porn and i feal free. Not thinking about hot chicks on the internet rather than focusing on actually touching them not looking at them.. I wanked once a day meaning my testosterone levels were down for the day. Thus stoping me from really portraying my man abilities.. I now feal free. Great Post !
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Interesting post, but I partially disagree. I agree that basing your life off of a movie is a stupid idea, but taking ideas and messages from movies that you agree with and putting them into action can be pretty beneficial. I'm not trying to promote a WWTDD (What Would Tyler Durden Do) here, I'm just taking out an idea. Plus, what do I have to lose by doing this?
 
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Fight Club in my opinion is by far the best movie i have ever seen. Think about it, Tyler Durden is a DJ..... NOT SUPPOSED TO HAPPEN IN MOVIES.

Just the way it was put together, the whole ideal of it, it's the best ****ing movie in my opinion, so many DJ characteristics, many mind opening views on the media and what it does.

I've watched that movie probably about 10 times by now.

I think the girl should've been less skanky and dirty looking though, but that did help the atmosphere of the movie, more, hotter chicks would've been better but they avoided that because thats' just medai BS.

I love you Chuck Palakniak.
 
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Not to turn this into a movie discussion, but you ever read any of chuck's literature? Good stuff.
 
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Porn is a harder addiction then cigarettes to quit. I am addicted to both, should have listened to my mother lol. The key is to cut back as much as you can, quitting cold turkey will just frustrate you trust me.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I liked fight club too and I bought the dvd (An unusual task for someone who is too cheap to buy the bootleg version of most movies) Anyways TD was a character in the movie, I wuldn't call him a Dj because he treats Marla like sh!t. He f>cks her and then avoids her and treats her like sh!t.

I think that fight club had another Dj related message tho, once you get rid of that voice in your head, you are invincible and can take gunshots to the head and survive :) But seriously, how about: You need to be who you wanna be ALL THE TIME. You can't just turn it on or off when you feel like it.

Methinks that another underlying theme was the fact that we make ourselves feel better by putting others down, or finding out we are better than them, but in fact that only brings us down. To paraphrase TD "We are the everlasting crap of the universe"

The best metaphorical scene is either the restaurant scene, or the scene with the acid on the hand. It is my favorite movie, but it isn't the DJ movie everyone makes it out to be. More of a self-actualization movie, but I guess that is partially Don Juan don't expect TD to go cold approach halfway through the movie :)
 
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