Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Leykis 101

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I listened to Tom often, until the radio station he was broadcast from, ended it.

I agree with a lot of what he said (same kinda stuff here in the forums)
 

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scorpio1138 said:
I listened to Tom often, until the radio station he was broadcast from, ended it.

I agree with a lot of what he said (same kinda stuff here in the forums)
It's too bad it went off the air. Sounds like he has another show coming on the 2nd of next month, I wonder if it's gonna be the same as his older stuff. Good advice, just like this place has to offer too.

I just listen to "no compliments" and couldn't believe one of the callers on there. Damn near fell off my chair!
 

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Metallica's "Enter The Sandman."
 

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Maximus Rex said:
Metallica's "Enter The Sandman."
The opening song on "Single Moms" isn't Enter Sandman dood.

For some reason I'm drawing a blank on this song.

I can't wait for his new show to come back. I hope is close to the 101.:rockon:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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scorpio1138 said:
I listened to Tom often, until the radio station he was broadcast from, ended it.

I agree with a lot of what he said (same kinda stuff here in the forums)
I believe he's coming back in a year or so.
 
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The father , had better advice than my dad . too bad he is not in the air anymore.
 
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