Letting Your Woman Meet Your Family

[Schwank]

I haven't got a problem with this chick meeting anybody from my family... except my older sister. My sister is dense (I'm sure her IQ is boderline deficient), ugly (box head), obnoxious (offends people very easily and without trying) and thus extremely annoying.

To be honest, I could do without ever seeing or hearing from her. She reflects badly on me. I get embarrassed over her stupidity and utter lack of social grace. What would you guys do? Would you let your woman meet such a family member? It's a ****ing disgrace to even have someone like this part of my family. I mean I could make it so my chick doesn't meet her, but that would be difficult at times.

What would you do?

 

[Real Talk]

Haha, going to town on your sister.

anyway, meeting your parents is all they usually want.

 

[Schwank]

Haha, going to town on your sister.

anyway, meeting your parents is all they usually want.

That's true. But it's more than likely that my sister will unexpectedly rear her ugly head sometime down the track. What the **** can I do then?

 

[Real Talk]

That's true. But it's more than likely that my sister will unexpectedly rear her ugly head sometime down the track. What the **** can I do then?

Treating your family with respect is THE only way to go if your woman is meeting them. Anything else, and your girl will think "he doesn't treat his family right"

So you treat her like sh*t while you're all there, you think your girl is going to be like "Your sister is annoying, I can see why you treat her like that!". No way!

No matter how quirky she is. It's something you should strive to do anyway. Your family are often the only people who wish you well and have your back 100% of the time.

BTW. the things you listed that you dont like about her are pretty immature things to worry about, on your part.

 

[Schwank]

Treating your family with respect is THE only way to go if your woman is meeting them. Anything else, and your girl will think "he doesn't treat his family right"

So you treat her like sh*t while you're all there, you think your girl is going to be like "Your sister is annoying, I can see why you treat her like that!". No way!

No matter how quirky she is. It's something you should strive to do anyway. Your family are often the only people who wish you well and have your back 100% of the time.

BTW. the things you listed that you dont like about her are pretty immature things to worry about, on your part.

No, they're not "immature" things to be concerned over. These things are legitimate. I've had some previous girls actually cringe over the words the came out of my sister's mouth.

And as for my family having my back, my sister has backstabbed me on a number of occassions. She's about as helpful as cantankerous senior citizen.

Further, I have never disrespected my sister in public, be it in front of GFs or otherwise. I just cringe like everyone else does...

 

[Falcon25]

My mother once told me, don't bring home any sluts for me to see, the only girl I want to meet, is the one you want to marry. So I have yet to bring one home.

 

[Julian]

I live a bachelor lifestyle that means my parents dont meet the chicks im fukking. whats the point.

 

[f283000]

I live a bachelor lifestyle that means my parents dont meet the chicks im fukking. whats the point.

Yup. There's a lot of reasons why this is a good idea

1. Introducing a girl to your family would mean you would have to go and meet her parents which is nothing more than ackward and tedious.
2. What's the point of meeting their parents if you already decided you will be single forever and not marry? Only chumps that think "she's the one" should be meeting parents. If you're the "no marriage" type then it's totally unnecessary to meet anyone's parents.
3. Having her meet your parents/you meeting theirs usually brings nothing more than drama to your life. If you happen to make a bad impression her mom will bug her about you, and the same goes for your mom if she doesn't like your gf.