“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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letting someone know you want to start "dating"

OregonDuckJuan

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I can already here it now...Friends cant be changed to more.

Lowdown:
Met a girl..she had a boy...kicked it awhile....she is now single.....get together at school..play basketball together at times..she says "so when are we gonna do more then play basketball, something different..........i tell her i have a hot tub...she mentions she hasnt been to this restraunt, says...we should eat there one night and take a hot tub......

Didnt plan on liking her...it happend....and i know im supposed to "show" her i like her, how can i verbally indirectly say, i want to get together under more dating terms? Any suggestions? Ideas? I dont want to be like that guy on sosuave front page, that says....'so do you want to date" or some bs like that

Thanks for the help yall.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Grey Fox

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Try this, call her up...invite her somewhere, use kino during the date. If things go well, at the end of the date kiss her. She should get the picture. Thats about as indirectly verbal as it gets.

-Grey Fox
 

Tyler

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Originally posted by Grey Fox
Try this, call her up...invite her somewhere, use kino during the date. If things go well, at the end of the date kiss her. She should get the picture. Thats about as indirectly verbal as it gets.

-Grey Fox
Whoa, what?? That's crazy!! You talkin' crazy talk!!
:D
 

El Campeon 56

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Situations like this are already money. Oregon- this woman is pretty much already sitting there waiting for you to take things to the next level. She suggests that you go out on a date together and back to your hottub and your worried about what to say? All you need to do is say " I'm up for having a good time tonight, let's go to that restaraunt and come back to my house and check out my hottub, it'll definitely be a lot of fun." This chick will agree and kino her during the restaraunt and when you get back to your house and the hottub she will be begging you to strip her down. Have fun with this girl, she's certainly game.
 
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