Letting Go

[CORVETTE06]

i have a girlfriend for two years.

i suspect she cheats on me, i hate her mom, dad and sister, she thinks who she is, she said horrible things to me that were hurtful.

the last thing that made me really pissed off is something she said. my grandfather just found out he has cancer throughout his whole body and he is going to die in a few months. i told my girlfriend and she said "it seems like cancer runs in your family. i dont want to marry some1 who has that in their family!".

i hung up the phone, and then she called back. i picked it up and said "i dont want to marry someone who has a family full of ****ed up noses. **** you." and i hung up.

i always looked past her big nose and never said anything about it. but everyone in her family has a ****ed up nose. i never make fun of people for the way they loook. but she said something really insensitive at a bad time.

then she said that she only said that because "she doesnt want the person she loves to die when they are older" -- bull****

i havent spoken to her for 3 days. i also suspect she cheats on me. she hides me from people and **** like that.

i feel that if i dump her, i will never find another girl again. when i go to the clubs they are all stuck up *****es....my current girlfriend said no1 will love me like she does. is that true?

everyone says i am really good looking and dont have a problem finding another girl. there are always girls who like me but i have a problem where i find something wrong with every girl. i dont know whats wrong with me

can some1 help me with my ****ed up problem

 

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[Potbelly]

Dude Drop This H0r!!!

How Dare She Disrespect U And Insult Your Family Like That Man.

Family First. Drop This H0r And Never Take Her Back

I Would Kick Her Ass If She Said That About My Grandpa.

 

[trajhenkhet02]

She said that after two years? Do you get along with her family and vice versa?

 

[Jariel]

Jesus christ! I can see that she has really fvcked up your self esteem if you think you cant get better than that! The real reason you think like this is because SHE has conditioned you to feel like sh!t!

Your first step is to ditch her and put a stop to her dragging you down any further. Even if you are single for a long time after it will be better for you than sticking it out with her!

If you are good looking then you just need to work on your confidence and that starts by dumping her and not looking back. Learning to walk away is a very positive habit that will help your confidence in the long term, as I explained here:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=95139

It might hurt and feel lonely to begin with, but keep yourself busy, start hanging out with your friends and socialising, and you'll look back and wonder why the hell you put up with this!

I'm very sorry to hear about your grandad. I lost mine a month ago to cancer too.

 

[izza]

The best solution in a case like is to forgive the hurtful words in the short term and aim for a long term plan. This would be to marry her, and then to die of cancer. You would have your revenge and she would get what she deserves!

He laughs best who laughs last.

 

[CORVETTE06]

my family always treated her nice. her family treated me nice, but i can tell her mom didnt like me.

ex) i bought her parents & sister christmas gifts.

her sister & mom never thanked me
her dad spoke to me on the phone and said he was going to use the box it came in to put his nails & bolts in.

and i bought them nice things. i didnt buy them anything cheap. even if i got them something crappy, they shoulda said thanks. i dont care about gifts and what ppl get me, but her mom got me a sweatshirt. my mom got my gf a pocketbook & an expensive sweater with fur from abercombie n fitch.

 

[niceguydying]

Man.... This girl really sounds like someone you would want to spend the rest of your life with! ASK yourself the statement I just made to you. Do you want to be her doormat? That was some mean and uncaring Shyt she said and I would take offense to it. Especially because I have lost several family members and not to mention MY MOTHER. Moms was 45 and I was 25, she died from PANCREATIC CANCER.

I know it seems like you will never replace her sorry a$$, but eventually you will. If you allow her to treat you like crap it is your own fault and she does it because you allow it.

The lesson learned from this will be much more than anything she could ever provide in a relationship!!!! Good luck and keep your head up. Most would say NEXT, but I will tell you this... Get yourself right first and then SARGE ON!