letting go of the past.

[sav]

A lot of stuff has been on my mind lately.

with the end of my LTR with a great girl, the hardest thing for me was just to let go. Realizing that things didnt work out for one reason or another and despite what i thought were issues that could be worked out, i knew that they couldnt be.

Over the past couple of months i felt like i was living in the past, always remeniscing on how good things were and how they would never be re-captured agian. It got pretty bad despite me knowing full well that it was over and there was nothing i could do or say to make it all come back.

It was hard for me to come to a realization that what we had WAS going to come agian. Love does come agian and it should be embraced..

by the same token, you cant live in the future either.. you cant think of what WILL be, you have to better yourself in the present, associate with people and women that will only bring you up and things will take a turn for the better.

Now this post really had no point, was just venting heh... its only real love if its returned.. remember that and u wont get hurt.. dont fall for a girl that you feel isnt returning your affection.. :nono:

 

[sexy_kuta]

man im in the same boat,
its hard, real hard, what i did was develop a mind set of "i dont give a fuk" and added some ICE to it. i act cold to the thoughts that enter my head, everytime i thinkg of her, i quickly just tell me "i dont give a fuk about her i dont give a fuk about anything" and then i proceed with my other things,
u just gotta find SOMEthing that keeps u busy but at the same uc annot hold onto it. right now ur holding on to the thoughts,. thats not moving on.

if u wanna mvoe on, u gotta let go of the thoughts. dont listen to those slow songs. do anything that reminds u of those times. yeh thier good and i fuking missED those times, "missed" i'll do ALOT just to get those times back but u gotta know that WHAT EVER happens. happens for A REASON. so be happy that ur alive, be happy u got food on your table. be happy you got a family and sosave to talk too. now go to the gym. go work out, be happy

 

[insanity]

i remember those days. i think one of the greatest parts of life were the heart crushing women who ripped my heart in half and left me for dead. it seemed like i always gave my life up just to put a smile on their faces and in the end i always received a slap back. even when i met some girl who was sweet and nice and i treated her like crap and she declared her love for me and i let my guard down only for her to be like every other woman i dated. that was it.

i learned from all those girls a very valuable lesson. never give your heart to anybody and expect them to cherish it. they will stomp, spit and destroy it.

i learned that i come first, no exceptions. my rules and if they didn't like them then get the hell out. even though it seemed cold and calculating it has seemed to work ten fold.

the girl i have been with for the last 5 years has listened and learned. she is fantastic and beautiful. i love her but will i let my guard down and act like a wuss again. NEVER.

 

[sav]

guys, most the people on this forum will not know how it is to get their hearts broken until it happens... im ****ing destroyed from within...


i miss her.. and what makes it worse is that i know she misses me... and the fact of the matter is, i doubt our pathes will cross agian.. (((((

 

[sav]

im looking forward to the brighter days ahead, except i dont seem the within sight..


i know they will come, but i just dont see them... i know im AFC heh, for all those that are badass'es on this forum, i'd like to see you with a girl that is your dream only to get crushed... then i'd love to see your reaction..


to all the guys that dont open up to being crushed liek that. i have one thing tos ay, i respect you, but you will never get to feel the full spectrum of love and life.

 

[Incog]

Look at yourself! You are crying for pity and whining for consolation. Pick yourself up!

This is not the advice you want to hear, but you need to SUCK IT UP as soon as possible. The sooner you do, the sooner you can move forward in life. Life goes on without her. You know this deep within but you don't want to face that fact right now. It is no longer WE, now it's I. It is all about you now, so focus on cleaning your act up. Don't go around asking for sympathy or acting pitiful. You are a man and you are strong enough to move forward and learn from this experience.

From what I read, I can tell your LTR will HELP you in the future. Use this to make you stronger. Learn from it. I hate seeing posts like these. You are better than this.

True love is like a pair of socks - you need two, and they have to match. She wasn't the matching sock.

 

[sav]

Look at yourself! You are crying for pity and whining for consolation. Pick yourself up!

This is not the advice you want to hear, but you need to SUCK IT UP as soon as possible. The sooner you do, the sooner you can move forward in life. Life goes on without her. You know this deep within but you don't want to face that fact right now. It is no longer WE, now it's I. It is all about you now, so focus on cleaning your act up. Don't go around asking for sympathy or acting pitiful. You are a man and you are strong enough to move forward and learn from this experience.

From what I read, I can tell your LTR will HELP you in the future. Use this to make you stronger. Learn from it. I hate seeing posts like these. You are better than this.

True love is like a pair of socks - you need two, and they have to match. She wasn't the matching sock.

i need more of **** liekt his guys... i need help moving on.. help me


i know im like a sad mofo right now needing approval... i hope im able to find another girl... i just need a way of thinking outside of boxing myself in, in an image i have a perfect girl after her... ;/