"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How to deal with even bringing it up to her? ... That we cannot be together because of culture/religion.

I had a bad experience of a girl (my first love) leaving me 6 years ago and I was in pain for months.

I was only 19. Now I am 25. Been with this girl for 3 years, will I feel the same? Im scared I will... But maybe I won't..

I know what the right decision is,, but it is soo fuqin hard....
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Of course it will hurt.

But look what happened after you broke up with your first girl six years ago... you found another one.

Plenty more out there :yes:
 
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Cremasta said:
Of course it will hurt.

But look what happened after you broke up with your first girl six years ago... you found another one.

Plenty more out there :yes:
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True... But is it true that its always harder with your first love? lol
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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