"i need to, but its hard"
ummmm.... its only as hard as you make it.
running a marathon is hard. working two jobs is hard. having cancer is hard.
breaking up? its not technically 'hard'. for some people its very easy because they have the right attitude.
breaking up is only as hard as you make it. any pain and suffering you experience is purely the result of internal thoughts you have and cognitive dissonance occuring in your own mind with regards to the situation.
part of being mature is putting things in their proper perspective. 16 year old kids lose it when they break up - 'ohhh no the world is over. the sky is falling. ill never love again.' blah blah blah.
when you get older hopefully you've learned to distinquish between what truly is hard and unfortunate, and what is merely an inconvenience.
my advice to you is to MOVE ON. why in the world would you want to be with a woman who has already shown you that she will cheat on you?
'fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me" - when she screws you over you'll have no one to blame this time but yourself.
ummmm.... its only as hard as you make it.
running a marathon is hard. working two jobs is hard. having cancer is hard.
breaking up? its not technically 'hard'. for some people its very easy because they have the right attitude.
breaking up is only as hard as you make it. any pain and suffering you experience is purely the result of internal thoughts you have and cognitive dissonance occuring in your own mind with regards to the situation.
part of being mature is putting things in their proper perspective. 16 year old kids lose it when they break up - 'ohhh no the world is over. the sky is falling. ill never love again.' blah blah blah.
when you get older hopefully you've learned to distinquish between what truly is hard and unfortunate, and what is merely an inconvenience.
my advice to you is to MOVE ON. why in the world would you want to be with a woman who has already shown you that she will cheat on you?
'fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me" - when she screws you over you'll have no one to blame this time but yourself.